Yes it has been one year since the onset of my cancer diagnosis. I went for my annual mammogram last December 17, 2009 at 7 p.m. That same night I received a personal phone call from the radiologist by 9 p.m. He very nicely informed me that they just happened to have an opening for a biopsy the very next day at 12 noon. So on Dec. 18th My daughter Arielle brought me to that appt. We sat in the office listening to "Have a Holly Jolly Christmas", as we waited for my adventure to begin.
It was then that we realized, they don't make non-CHEERY Holiday tunes specifically for these occasions. The next day we headed to Boston for a 2nd and 3rd opinion and more invasive procedures. By Dec. 22nd, I heard the official news, " Yes Theresa there is and agressive Breast Cancer --Third Stage Her 2 Positive in your left breast!" Well, at least it was POSITIVE. They say if you have a positive outlook, things are easier to handle. For who??? The people around you I assume. No one wants to see a gloomy cancer patient, especially around Christmas time.
Recently one of my forever friends sent me an e-mail that informed me I had been through "The Perfect Storm" this past year. I'm not sure how perfect it was. However, I am sure that with the help of my husband, family (including my dog Rocky) and dear friends I was able to find "THE Happiness in the Storm".
With Mama Bear determination, I made myself a promise to do whatever I had to do as a patient to increase my chances of surviving for my children and my precious grandchildren.
I now finally feel like a survivor! Before this time, I always felt more like a cancer patient. With just two more Chemo appts. left and a final surgery on Jan. 27th, it's much easier to not allow cancer to be the central focus of my days.
The only therapy I've ever enjoyed is SPA therapy. However, in this past year I've withstood, Chemo-therapy, radiation therapy, hormone therapy, surgery and more. Having to rid your body of this deadly disease is like killing an ant with a hammer on a glass window. Except you're the ant and your body is the glass window.
Some of you have asked how I've made it through this year still standing. I think it was a combination of acceptance, feistiness, faith, peacefulness, finding my joy and hopefulness that helped me along the way. A tempered optimism toward finding my new normal and balance in my life.
Lessons Learned:
The human spirit is stronger than any challenge. Family, Friends, Faith and Flexibility are what you need to sustain you. As well, your husbands well timed jokes that only the two of you appreciate to help you get through the faCT THAT YOU are about to lose a part of your body or getting you through burning your body and more.
In the meantime, YOU have to be your own BEST FRIEND and then you not only can STAND UP to CANCER, you can get through your own personal storm. You may not be able to change the direction that the wind is blowing, but you can always change the direction of your sail. (THe sail of your own stormy seas)!
Luckily, no storm last forever. Sound knowledge and geniune hope have helped guide my way through this storm called Cancer and my love of life and my precious grandbabies have lead me to happiness despite this storm. After the rain stops and the winds die down, I hope to ease into my safe harbor and use the lessons learned to enrich my life and others today, tomorrow and every single day ahead of me.
There is always HOPE, and we all have a right to be hopeful!
Wishing you all Happy, Healthy, Hopeful Holidays!
CEO (Theresa, Tree..) of the (Vic-TREE) Victory Team Victoriously signing off........
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Friday, October 16, 2009
Brent and Arielle performing at Sandbar Grill
FYI: Brent and Arielle are performing
this Sunday 6 p.m. at the
Ba Ha Brother's
Sandbar Grill, 64 Weir Street in Taunton, MA 02780
this Sunday 6 p.m. at the
Ba Ha Brother's
Sandbar Grill, 64 Weir Street in Taunton, MA 02780
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
STICK A FORK IN ME -- I'M DONE!!!!!!
O.K., so I'll be done, all done---- with radiation this Thursday October 1st.
I gave the nurse and radiologists a gift of thanks. As well, I gave the doctor some SmokeHouse NUTS with a card that read, "Thank you for a job "Well Done", with the emphasis on "WELL DONE"!!!!!! I'm crispy like bacon. Glen and I sing old songs on the way to radiation like, "I'm Burning, I'm Burning, I'm Burning for YOU....",or Burn Baby Burn---Disco Inferno...Burn Baby Burn, Burn that Mother down." "Something's Burning.... You get the point??!!!! ( 7 wks of radiation in all).
With just two days to go, I've been running into a new patient as she nervously asks me how I'm doing. She is frightened beyond belief with questions like, "So is your skin red? Is it sore, itchy, uncomfortable??? I smile and say, "Oh, it's not that bad".
If I told the poor woman the truth, she'd run out of there like the Road Runner.
I don't see the point in making her fearful of something she has to do and will definitely get through.
More Chemo on Thursday. I continue the Chemo every 3 wks until January. I'm just now starting to feel like a SURVIVOR!!!!
I remain -- Totally Insane!!! CEO Theresa, Tree,SF
P.S. I'm Teaching part-time and loving it. It's like someone plugged me back into life. I love the classroom. Esp. the little ones, sweet and innocent!!
I gave the nurse and radiologists a gift of thanks. As well, I gave the doctor some SmokeHouse NUTS with a card that read, "Thank you for a job "Well Done", with the emphasis on "WELL DONE"!!!!!! I'm crispy like bacon. Glen and I sing old songs on the way to radiation like, "I'm Burning, I'm Burning, I'm Burning for YOU....",or Burn Baby Burn---Disco Inferno...Burn Baby Burn, Burn that Mother down." "Something's Burning.... You get the point??!!!! ( 7 wks of radiation in all).
With just two days to go, I've been running into a new patient as she nervously asks me how I'm doing. She is frightened beyond belief with questions like, "So is your skin red? Is it sore, itchy, uncomfortable??? I smile and say, "Oh, it's not that bad".
If I told the poor woman the truth, she'd run out of there like the Road Runner.
I don't see the point in making her fearful of something she has to do and will definitely get through.
More Chemo on Thursday. I continue the Chemo every 3 wks until January. I'm just now starting to feel like a SURVIVOR!!!!
I remain -- Totally Insane!!! CEO Theresa, Tree,SF
P.S. I'm Teaching part-time and loving it. It's like someone plugged me back into life. I love the classroom. Esp. the little ones, sweet and innocent!!
Monday, September 14, 2009
Shhhhh....It's a secret!!!
Shhhhh....Don't tell ANYONE that it's my birthday this Saturday, Sept. 19th!!
As my birthday approaches I can't help but think that I wasn't quite sure I would make it to another birth-day. I also fondly and lovingly remember how my dad would tell everyone he came in contact with (just days before his birthday) (every year) to squash any plans that people might be making. He would say, "If you hear of anyone making special plans for my birthday, squash them." You could say, he loved attention. You might say, I take after him.
O.K., so cut me some slack. It's been 9 months of cancer treatment, and 9 months of being out of work. I'm in my 5th week of radiation, with just one more week to go. I'll be done with radiation on October 1st. I'll continue with Chemo every 3 wks. until January with more surgery to follow.
Now do you see why I might be looking forward to a happy celebration!!!!!
Those of you that are Blaque Lyte fans. They will be playing this Monday, Sept. 21st at the famous "Scullers Jazz Club" in Boston. They are in a band contest at the club that evening.
Would you believe my little Alex will be 3 years old after Nini on October 4th??
His mommy Alyssa celebrates her day on Halloween. My girlfriend Marilu celebrates her day this month. However, this year was very special falling on 9-9-09. She had the right idea when she had a celebratory party that night. It reminded me of when I had my own 40th birthday party just a few short years ago!!!
One thing I have learned through my journey, is that Life is for Living! So remember, If you hear of anyone planning to call me or e-mail me to say Happy Birthday, squash it!!!!
Still CEO of the Vic-Tree Support Group -- Theresa, Tree
As my birthday approaches I can't help but think that I wasn't quite sure I would make it to another birth-day. I also fondly and lovingly remember how my dad would tell everyone he came in contact with (just days before his birthday) (every year) to squash any plans that people might be making. He would say, "If you hear of anyone making special plans for my birthday, squash them." You could say, he loved attention. You might say, I take after him.
O.K., so cut me some slack. It's been 9 months of cancer treatment, and 9 months of being out of work. I'm in my 5th week of radiation, with just one more week to go. I'll be done with radiation on October 1st. I'll continue with Chemo every 3 wks. until January with more surgery to follow.
Now do you see why I might be looking forward to a happy celebration!!!!!
Those of you that are Blaque Lyte fans. They will be playing this Monday, Sept. 21st at the famous "Scullers Jazz Club" in Boston. They are in a band contest at the club that evening.
Would you believe my little Alex will be 3 years old after Nini on October 4th??
His mommy Alyssa celebrates her day on Halloween. My girlfriend Marilu celebrates her day this month. However, this year was very special falling on 9-9-09. She had the right idea when she had a celebratory party that night. It reminded me of when I had my own 40th birthday party just a few short years ago!!!
One thing I have learned through my journey, is that Life is for Living! So remember, If you hear of anyone planning to call me or e-mail me to say Happy Birthday, squash it!!!!
Still CEO of the Vic-Tree Support Group -- Theresa, Tree
Friday, September 4, 2009
Curley's Pub Cancellation - Last Minute
For those of you who were thinking of coming tonight (Curley's Pub). There has been a last minute cancellation.
Brent played at Berklee College of Music's Performance Center last evening with a popular group from N.Y.C. They were so impressed with Brent's performance, they want him to play with them again tonight.
This band could help his future career plans. They have a production company etc. in New York City. And so it goes......
Enjoy your holiday weekend. Theresa
Brent played at Berklee College of Music's Performance Center last evening with a popular group from N.Y.C. They were so impressed with Brent's performance, they want him to play with them again tonight.
This band could help his future career plans. They have a production company etc. in New York City. And so it goes......
Enjoy your holiday weekend. Theresa
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Brent and Arielle performing at Curley's Pub
FYI: Brent and Arielle will be performing LIVE and in person...
this Friday, September 4, 2009 at 8:30 p.m.
Hope to see you there! Theresa
P.S. - I'm in my 3rd week of radiation with just 3 more weeks to go. Now when someone says I look radiant, they really mean it.
I continue having Chemo, blood work, doctors appt. every 3 wks. until January. I will have more surgery sometime in Jan. or Feb. and then I look forward to looking back on this glorious experience. Looking back being the operative word.
this Friday, September 4, 2009 at 8:30 p.m.
Hope to see you there! Theresa
P.S. - I'm in my 3rd week of radiation with just 3 more weeks to go. Now when someone says I look radiant, they really mean it.
I continue having Chemo, blood work, doctors appt. every 3 wks. until January. I will have more surgery sometime in Jan. or Feb. and then I look forward to looking back on this glorious experience. Looking back being the operative word.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Vic-TREE Support Group Meeting Time change!!!
About that Victory Support Group Meeting on Sunday August 23, 2009
The time is 6 p.m.
Ari and Brent will be performing at the Ba Ha Brothers, Sandbar Grill, 64 Weir St. in Taunton this Sunday August 23, 2009 at 6 p.m. not 4
Hope to see you there!!!!
The time is 6 p.m.
Ari and Brent will be performing at the Ba Ha Brothers, Sandbar Grill, 64 Weir St. in Taunton this Sunday August 23, 2009 at 6 p.m. not 4
Hope to see you there!!!!
Vic-TREE Support Group Meeting!!!!!!
That's right, I said it.
A Victory support group meeting this Sunday, August 23, 2009.
Brent and Arielle will be performing at the Ba Ha Brother's Sandbar Grill, 64 Weir Street in Taunton this coming Sunday, August 23, 2009 approximately 4 p.m. - 7 p.m.
Come on down to support them, which in turn, supports ME!!!!!!!
Hope to see you all there.
Save September 4th, 2009, Friday night at Curley's Pub---We can't get enough of Brent and Ari performing LIVE!
A Victory support group meeting this Sunday, August 23, 2009.
Brent and Arielle will be performing at the Ba Ha Brother's Sandbar Grill, 64 Weir Street in Taunton this coming Sunday, August 23, 2009 approximately 4 p.m. - 7 p.m.
Come on down to support them, which in turn, supports ME!!!!!!!
Hope to see you all there.
Save September 4th, 2009, Friday night at Curley's Pub---We can't get enough of Brent and Ari performing LIVE!
Sunday, August 2, 2009
THIS WILL BE THE BEST SUMMER EVER..NOT
If you watch any television at all, you've seen the Toyota commercial that plays relentlessly on every channel all day long. "This will be the Best Summer Ever". I despise that commercial. This is anything but my best summer ever. (Boo-Friggin-HOO)
UPDATE:
I will be at Mass. General Hospital once again for a procedure that I have had numerous times this Tues. Supposedly this will be my last one before I start radiation. Let's just say, it's not the most pleasant of procedures. It's the anticipation of knowing what I have to endure each and every Tuesday that's the worst. Just picture having to have your botton lip pulled up over your face and held in place with an ice pick (O.K., a slight hyperbole (exaggeration) (not by much) without medication and then having to do that again next week. Major OUCH!!!
I start the beginning stages of radiation this Friday, it's called mapping, whereby they tatoo me with markings so that they radiate the correct spots each time rather than my heart and lungs!!!
Chemo continues every 3 wks, along with blood work and seeing the oncologist.
So much for an apple a day keeps the doctor away!!
Radiation will be every day Mon-Friday for the next 6 wks. After radiation I will have more surgery at Mass. General. I hope to be a survivor looking back on my journey by next year sometime. I was guessing this would take 12-18 months and I was correct.
They also started me on hormonal therapy which is part of my treatment. It's pill-form and I must take it for the next 5 yrs.
Enough about me: Brent and Arielle will be performing at Ba Ha Brothers on Sunday August 23rd, so please SAVE THE DATE!!!!!
MY grandchildren Alex and Ashlyn continue to bring me so much love and JOY!!!
I carry their picture with me when I have to do anything unpleasant. My theory being, the JOY Will burn out the pain. So far so good!!! O.K., so pain medication supplements my love for my babies--whatever.
I hope you are having the BEST SUMMER EVER!!!!
Hanging in there- (some days by a thread)-- Theresa CEO Vic-tree Support Group
Save DATE: Sunday August 23rd - Next Vic-TREE Support Group Meeting!!!!!!
More details to follow.
My only e-mail is specialbabybook@yahoo.com or this blog. Thanks for your support!
UPDATE:
I will be at Mass. General Hospital once again for a procedure that I have had numerous times this Tues. Supposedly this will be my last one before I start radiation. Let's just say, it's not the most pleasant of procedures. It's the anticipation of knowing what I have to endure each and every Tuesday that's the worst. Just picture having to have your botton lip pulled up over your face and held in place with an ice pick (O.K., a slight hyperbole (exaggeration) (not by much) without medication and then having to do that again next week. Major OUCH!!!
I start the beginning stages of radiation this Friday, it's called mapping, whereby they tatoo me with markings so that they radiate the correct spots each time rather than my heart and lungs!!!
Chemo continues every 3 wks, along with blood work and seeing the oncologist.
So much for an apple a day keeps the doctor away!!
Radiation will be every day Mon-Friday for the next 6 wks. After radiation I will have more surgery at Mass. General. I hope to be a survivor looking back on my journey by next year sometime. I was guessing this would take 12-18 months and I was correct.
They also started me on hormonal therapy which is part of my treatment. It's pill-form and I must take it for the next 5 yrs.
Enough about me: Brent and Arielle will be performing at Ba Ha Brothers on Sunday August 23rd, so please SAVE THE DATE!!!!!
MY grandchildren Alex and Ashlyn continue to bring me so much love and JOY!!!
I carry their picture with me when I have to do anything unpleasant. My theory being, the JOY Will burn out the pain. So far so good!!! O.K., so pain medication supplements my love for my babies--whatever.
I hope you are having the BEST SUMMER EVER!!!!
Hanging in there- (some days by a thread)-- Theresa CEO Vic-tree Support Group
Save DATE: Sunday August 23rd - Next Vic-TREE Support Group Meeting!!!!!!
More details to follow.
My only e-mail is specialbabybook@yahoo.com or this blog. Thanks for your support!
Thursday, July 9, 2009
7-8-9
O.K., so that was yesterday, however, 7-8-9 is way cooler than today's 7-9-9.
Reminds me of my sweet grandmother who used to tell people her birthday was 5-6-7 It was May 6, 1907.
Some of you have wondered where I've been. I'm still here. Going to Boston each week to see my doctor. Starting Chemo again, however, not the cocktail that makes you sick for days on end. Rather the specific Herceptin medicine that goes specifically to the type of Her2 positive cancer that I had. Had being the operative word. The pathology report after surgery showed all the cancer was gone.
So you ask??? Why do I have to continue Chemo and start radiation. Two reasons... To keep the cancer from reocurring and to extend my life. Two good reasons I'm sure you'd agree. So I continue to press forward.
I trust everyone is enjoying their Summer. I'm glad the sun finally decided to shine even if I have to hide from it. Cancer sucks!!!!
Tree
Reminds me of my sweet grandmother who used to tell people her birthday was 5-6-7 It was May 6, 1907.
Some of you have wondered where I've been. I'm still here. Going to Boston each week to see my doctor. Starting Chemo again, however, not the cocktail that makes you sick for days on end. Rather the specific Herceptin medicine that goes specifically to the type of Her2 positive cancer that I had. Had being the operative word. The pathology report after surgery showed all the cancer was gone.
So you ask??? Why do I have to continue Chemo and start radiation. Two reasons... To keep the cancer from reocurring and to extend my life. Two good reasons I'm sure you'd agree. So I continue to press forward.
I trust everyone is enjoying their Summer. I'm glad the sun finally decided to shine even if I have to hide from it. Cancer sucks!!!!
Tree
Thursday, June 11, 2009
OFF MY CHEST!
Let me get a few things OFF MY CHEST! Oh, come on,------- you have to admit it's a perfect title for me 10 days after MY surgery!
Yes, it's been just 10 days and I can finally manage to lift my left arm on the keyboard. I was typing with one hand, it's way too slow. Boy do I appreciate the use of both my arms!
Good News First! My middle son Brent Edward turns 22 yrs. old today! (Happy Birthday Bud! I love you!) He will be going to Berklee College of Music tonight to use the production room to continue making a music CD with his band.
Arielle is continuing with a 5 week Summer course at BSC for her Graphic Design major. She is taking a drawing class and realizing her potential. She has more artistic talent then she (we) thought.
Alex continues to be a devoted young dad and husband working hard to build a day care center in their new backyard and downstairs in his spare time for Alyssa to head.
My grandchildren are beautiful as ever. Little Alex, 2 yrs. old leaves me phone messages that I cherish and re-play over and over to make my heart smile.
O.K., so you could say I've been a bit under the weather. LOOK OUT THE WINDOW, I'm under that!!!! Hey, it hurts having a part of your body removed. OUCH!!! I've had to cut the medication in half. I don't do too well on pain medicine. It makes me sick. My options are take it and take the edge off the pain and feel nauseous, dizzy and weak or don't take it and be in some heavy duty "lost a part of my body" pain!!! OUCH!!!!
Oh, it's not that bad. I will say, there is a little, tiny, small, not so nice, part of me that is glad the sun isn't shining! How could it shine while I'm in such pain? Sorry, I realize all of you normal people living your normal life would appreciate the Sun! O.K., I hope it shines for you soon! Ooops, that wasn't very nice, was it?
Well, I think my arm has had enough exercise for one day. I'm living to get to my nephew Nick and Cailyn's wedding. You may remember, I took a pshychology class the fall of 2006. Cailyn only twenty something years old, young, adorable, sweet, was the only other extrovert (talker) in the class. I gave Nick and Cailyn each other's e-mail addresses to see if they had anything in common. The rest is history. A match-maker was born. Their wedding day is this June 27, 2009, the next Sunny DAy!!!. My motivation for healing. My first big event to attend. If you happen to be there, please stay clear of my left arm. The refrigertor door swung open and accidentally hit my arm the other day, I saw stars!!! OUCH!!!
Hope everyone is well. Make your own sunshine. Appreciate your pain free days!
My dear life-long friend Lee just called. Thanks for the sunshine Lee! I have to laugh when people say, I'd call you but I don't want to bother you. Remember, my phone in my room does not ring, so if I'm resting, I won't hear it. If you want to leave me a message by phone, e-mail, blog, I would love the attention.
P.S. I was reminded of something funny while on the phone with Lee. When we went into Boston, Mass. General Hospital this past Tues. for my post op doctors visit, my mother (76) wheeled me into the hospital while Glen parked the car. On the way out, I thought, "what's wrong with this picture"??. Keep in mind, it's downhill on the way out and my mom needs assistance when she walks. I pictured her losing her grip and me flying down the hill, with a cast on the other arm!!!! It hurts to laugh, but it still feels good.
Time for my medication!!!
I remain, Positive, Hopeful, Crazy and in Pain!!!!!
CEO, VICTORY VIC-TREE TEAM Theresa, Tree, SF
Yes, it's been just 10 days and I can finally manage to lift my left arm on the keyboard. I was typing with one hand, it's way too slow. Boy do I appreciate the use of both my arms!
Good News First! My middle son Brent Edward turns 22 yrs. old today! (Happy Birthday Bud! I love you!) He will be going to Berklee College of Music tonight to use the production room to continue making a music CD with his band.
Arielle is continuing with a 5 week Summer course at BSC for her Graphic Design major. She is taking a drawing class and realizing her potential. She has more artistic talent then she (we) thought.
Alex continues to be a devoted young dad and husband working hard to build a day care center in their new backyard and downstairs in his spare time for Alyssa to head.
My grandchildren are beautiful as ever. Little Alex, 2 yrs. old leaves me phone messages that I cherish and re-play over and over to make my heart smile.
O.K., so you could say I've been a bit under the weather. LOOK OUT THE WINDOW, I'm under that!!!! Hey, it hurts having a part of your body removed. OUCH!!! I've had to cut the medication in half. I don't do too well on pain medicine. It makes me sick. My options are take it and take the edge off the pain and feel nauseous, dizzy and weak or don't take it and be in some heavy duty "lost a part of my body" pain!!! OUCH!!!!
Oh, it's not that bad. I will say, there is a little, tiny, small, not so nice, part of me that is glad the sun isn't shining! How could it shine while I'm in such pain? Sorry, I realize all of you normal people living your normal life would appreciate the Sun! O.K., I hope it shines for you soon! Ooops, that wasn't very nice, was it?
Well, I think my arm has had enough exercise for one day. I'm living to get to my nephew Nick and Cailyn's wedding. You may remember, I took a pshychology class the fall of 2006. Cailyn only twenty something years old, young, adorable, sweet, was the only other extrovert (talker) in the class. I gave Nick and Cailyn each other's e-mail addresses to see if they had anything in common. The rest is history. A match-maker was born. Their wedding day is this June 27, 2009, the next Sunny DAy!!!. My motivation for healing. My first big event to attend. If you happen to be there, please stay clear of my left arm. The refrigertor door swung open and accidentally hit my arm the other day, I saw stars!!! OUCH!!!
Hope everyone is well. Make your own sunshine. Appreciate your pain free days!
My dear life-long friend Lee just called. Thanks for the sunshine Lee! I have to laugh when people say, I'd call you but I don't want to bother you. Remember, my phone in my room does not ring, so if I'm resting, I won't hear it. If you want to leave me a message by phone, e-mail, blog, I would love the attention.
P.S. I was reminded of something funny while on the phone with Lee. When we went into Boston, Mass. General Hospital this past Tues. for my post op doctors visit, my mother (76) wheeled me into the hospital while Glen parked the car. On the way out, I thought, "what's wrong with this picture"??. Keep in mind, it's downhill on the way out and my mom needs assistance when she walks. I pictured her losing her grip and me flying down the hill, with a cast on the other arm!!!! It hurts to laugh, but it still feels good.
Time for my medication!!!
I remain, Positive, Hopeful, Crazy and in Pain!!!!!
CEO, VICTORY VIC-TREE TEAM Theresa, Tree, SF
Monday, June 1, 2009
Post-Op Update
My Dad just called to let me know that my Mother's surgery went as planned, and there is nothing out of the ordinary to report. She will be in Post-Op recovery for a couple of hours then my Dad will be able to see her. So thats the update for now. Hope everyone's day is going well, and your wearing purple, thoughts, and prayers are doing the trick thus far.
-Alex
-Alex
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Time Flies When You're Having FUN!!!!
Wow! Is it May 31st already? Time sure does fly when you are having FUN!
Is tomorrow really June 1st?
Just took my Rock(He really is my Rock) out for a walk on this glorious, sunshiny day! It was a beautiful walk. I hope everyone is enjoying this beautiful day!
I just want to express my gratitude for all your heartfelt e-mails, blog comments, cards and phone calls with well wishes for "Purple Day" otherwise known as surgery day tomorrow. I so appreciate you all taking the time for me and showing me love, care, prayers, candles lit prayers, dinners, flowers and your continued support.I know this can get old!
What I've learned thru my journey so far:
The meaning of life for me is still: GIVING!
Lessons I've learned: Live in the moment, enjoy the present. Find your JOY in life. (I filled myself with my grandchildren Alex Jr. and Ashlyn Joy yesterday)!! Focus on your Joy when you need to burn out the pain. What will be will be, go with it, smile, breathe...live each day to the fullest. Be kind to yourself and others.
Have faith, trust and believe!
My mantra today is: I choose PEACE, I am PEACEFUL. (Try it, it works)!
Thank you all for wrapping me in Purple energy tomorrow. I have to be at Mass. General Hospital by 6 a.m., so send your calming, peaceful energies my way anytime after 6. Some of you are actually wearing purple to keep me in your thoughts all day. Still others (teachers) are having your classrooms all wear purple or your workplace. How cool! Thanks for that.
I remain Positive, Hopeful, Crazy and Peaceful!
CEO of Victory (Vic-TREE) TEAM Theresa (Searching for a new normal)!
Is tomorrow really June 1st?
Just took my Rock(He really is my Rock) out for a walk on this glorious, sunshiny day! It was a beautiful walk. I hope everyone is enjoying this beautiful day!
I just want to express my gratitude for all your heartfelt e-mails, blog comments, cards and phone calls with well wishes for "Purple Day" otherwise known as surgery day tomorrow. I so appreciate you all taking the time for me and showing me love, care, prayers, candles lit prayers, dinners, flowers and your continued support.I know this can get old!
What I've learned thru my journey so far:
The meaning of life for me is still: GIVING!
Lessons I've learned: Live in the moment, enjoy the present. Find your JOY in life. (I filled myself with my grandchildren Alex Jr. and Ashlyn Joy yesterday)!! Focus on your Joy when you need to burn out the pain. What will be will be, go with it, smile, breathe...live each day to the fullest. Be kind to yourself and others.
Have faith, trust and believe!
My mantra today is: I choose PEACE, I am PEACEFUL. (Try it, it works)!
Thank you all for wrapping me in Purple energy tomorrow. I have to be at Mass. General Hospital by 6 a.m., so send your calming, peaceful energies my way anytime after 6. Some of you are actually wearing purple to keep me in your thoughts all day. Still others (teachers) are having your classrooms all wear purple or your workplace. How cool! Thanks for that.
I remain Positive, Hopeful, Crazy and Peaceful!
CEO of Victory (Vic-TREE) TEAM Theresa (Searching for a new normal)!
Monday, May 25, 2009
Bird's Nest is out on a limb!
If you recall, I saved my head of hair that was shaved from my scalp during Chemo. Tonight I made a bird's nest with my hair and placed it "out on a limb" of a tree in my backyard. When I take Rocky (my dog) outside, I'll be able to see and watch as a mother bird cares for her young. I believe that mother will have a deluxe accomodation for her youngins.
Also, Glen is bringing me into Boston's Mass. General Hospital tomorrow for a
7:00 am. appt. to meet with my anesthesiologist regarding surgery next Monday,
June 1st. I know, sounds like fun. Do we know how to have a good time or what?????
Some of you wondered why I still had to have surgery if my tumor went from a
10 cm. tumor down to zero. I have two forms of cancer in my left side. One that Chemo helps and one that Chemo doesn't phase. So surgery in a week!
My surgeon actually said that she would be happy to recite a few positive, healing affirmations during surgery. Remember, your auditory hearing continues and your subconscious remembers. I know, I'm not your typical patient!!! Whatever!
Speaking of which:
I would be most happy if you could think of me on Monday June 1st sometime around 8:00 a.m. or after. Wrap me in a blanket of purple (I'm tired of pink). If you visualize a memory of me that makes you smile (hopefully you have one), and then wrap me in that blanket, my energy will feel your energies sending me love. Thanks for considering it.
I remain, Positive, Hopeful, Crazy and a wee bit scared out of my wits!!!!!!!
You could say, I'm out on a limb!!!
CEO and founder of Vic-TREE (Victory!!!!) Team Theresa, Tree, SF
Also, Glen is bringing me into Boston's Mass. General Hospital tomorrow for a
7:00 am. appt. to meet with my anesthesiologist regarding surgery next Monday,
June 1st. I know, sounds like fun. Do we know how to have a good time or what?????
Some of you wondered why I still had to have surgery if my tumor went from a
10 cm. tumor down to zero. I have two forms of cancer in my left side. One that Chemo helps and one that Chemo doesn't phase. So surgery in a week!
My surgeon actually said that she would be happy to recite a few positive, healing affirmations during surgery. Remember, your auditory hearing continues and your subconscious remembers. I know, I'm not your typical patient!!! Whatever!
Speaking of which:
I would be most happy if you could think of me on Monday June 1st sometime around 8:00 a.m. or after. Wrap me in a blanket of purple (I'm tired of pink). If you visualize a memory of me that makes you smile (hopefully you have one), and then wrap me in that blanket, my energy will feel your energies sending me love. Thanks for considering it.
I remain, Positive, Hopeful, Crazy and a wee bit scared out of my wits!!!!!!!
You could say, I'm out on a limb!!!
CEO and founder of Vic-TREE (Victory!!!!) Team Theresa, Tree, SF
Monday, May 18, 2009
Happy 30th Wedding Anniversary!
May 18, 1979
May 18, 2009
Thirty years! Can it really be true, thirty years of marital bliss actually happened?
Yes, it's true! Glen and I are celebrating 30 yrs. of marriage today. Yikes!!
Reminds me of a quote I have hanging in the house:
"Marriage is finding that one special person you can annoy for the rest of your life".
I definitely found that special someone. He left a special anniversary card for me this morning before he left to work. He added, "Let's do this for at least another 30 yrs." Very sweet. I think I'll keep him.
Soaking up the JOY in my life. Hoping that the JOY will burn out the upcoming pain. Going out to eat tonight to celebrate just the two of us!
May 18, 2009
Thirty years! Can it really be true, thirty years of marital bliss actually happened?
Yes, it's true! Glen and I are celebrating 30 yrs. of marriage today. Yikes!!
Reminds me of a quote I have hanging in the house:
"Marriage is finding that one special person you can annoy for the rest of your life".
I definitely found that special someone. He left a special anniversary card for me this morning before he left to work. He added, "Let's do this for at least another 30 yrs." Very sweet. I think I'll keep him.
Soaking up the JOY in my life. Hoping that the JOY will burn out the upcoming pain. Going out to eat tonight to celebrate just the two of us!
Friday, May 1, 2009
Tiptoeing to the future in Taunton!!
May Day! May Day!!
O.K., so yesterday was my very last 5 hour Chemo cocktail infusion. I have just two more 1 hour infusions next Thursday May 7th (Happy Birthday my firstborn Alex) and my very last ever on May 14th. Alleuluia. Blood work, doctors appt. and more continue.
I have the usual Tsanami going on in my stomach with a few other insidious side effects but I'll get through this (I've done it before), it's my 6th and last one. YES!!!!
My sweet daughter (in-law) Alyssa brought me a beautiful bright yellow smiley floral bouquet to commemerate my last long Chemo. The cutest flowers were cut out pictures of my grandchildren Alex and Ashyln smiling in between the real flowers!!! How sweet. She also has had Alex call me on the phone and leave messages like, "Hi Nini, I love you sooo much, bye bye". I have listened to that approximately 50 times. Each time it makes my heart smile.
FYI: I've decided to change my name to Rabbi Shmuley. Simply because being Theresa Hebert is getting old. Arielle reminded me that Theresa Hebert has a lot to be grateful for like her wonderfully supportive husband Glen and her 3 beautiful children and 2 adorable granchilden. So I've opted for Theresa Rabbi Shmuley Hebert.
Surgery: Mass General Hospital on June 1st.
6 wks. M-F of radiation. Wahoo!! The journey continues.
I have received over 250 cards since my diagnosis on 12-22-08. They are all so beautiful and funny and keep me going and feeling loved. One of my all time favorties was from my niece Morgan. The front of the card simply says: License to Bitch and Moan. One of my other favorites ironically is from her brother, my nephew Mitchell. It said something about fastforwarding over the crappy parts of life. I've been hitting the fast forward button, it's not working!!! Some of you are kind enough to be sending me a card a week or every 2-3 weeks. I guess you realize this is more than a one card illness. Thanks for your continued support. It truly means the world to me.
The challenge of comments continues. We went from 0 comments (really depressing) to 5, up to 11. Can we pass 11? I think you can, I think you can!
I remain Positive, Hopeful, and Crazy!!!
CEO Theresa Rabbi Shumley Hebert - Attention Deficit-- In need of attention big time!
O.K., so yesterday was my very last 5 hour Chemo cocktail infusion. I have just two more 1 hour infusions next Thursday May 7th (Happy Birthday my firstborn Alex) and my very last ever on May 14th. Alleuluia. Blood work, doctors appt. and more continue.
I have the usual Tsanami going on in my stomach with a few other insidious side effects but I'll get through this (I've done it before), it's my 6th and last one. YES!!!!
My sweet daughter (in-law) Alyssa brought me a beautiful bright yellow smiley floral bouquet to commemerate my last long Chemo. The cutest flowers were cut out pictures of my grandchildren Alex and Ashyln smiling in between the real flowers!!! How sweet. She also has had Alex call me on the phone and leave messages like, "Hi Nini, I love you sooo much, bye bye". I have listened to that approximately 50 times. Each time it makes my heart smile.
FYI: I've decided to change my name to Rabbi Shmuley. Simply because being Theresa Hebert is getting old. Arielle reminded me that Theresa Hebert has a lot to be grateful for like her wonderfully supportive husband Glen and her 3 beautiful children and 2 adorable granchilden. So I've opted for Theresa Rabbi Shmuley Hebert.
Surgery: Mass General Hospital on June 1st.
6 wks. M-F of radiation. Wahoo!! The journey continues.
I have received over 250 cards since my diagnosis on 12-22-08. They are all so beautiful and funny and keep me going and feeling loved. One of my all time favorties was from my niece Morgan. The front of the card simply says: License to Bitch and Moan. One of my other favorites ironically is from her brother, my nephew Mitchell. It said something about fastforwarding over the crappy parts of life. I've been hitting the fast forward button, it's not working!!! Some of you are kind enough to be sending me a card a week or every 2-3 weeks. I guess you realize this is more than a one card illness. Thanks for your continued support. It truly means the world to me.
The challenge of comments continues. We went from 0 comments (really depressing) to 5, up to 11. Can we pass 11? I think you can, I think you can!
I remain Positive, Hopeful, and Crazy!!!
CEO Theresa Rabbi Shumley Hebert - Attention Deficit-- In need of attention big time!
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Sleepless in Southeastern Massachusetts
I was recently reminded by my mother that I was born at 3:02 a.m. in the morning. Know wonder I seem to be up at that time so frequently. I'm reliving my youth (birth?)
I have to laugh when some of you comment, "I've checked your blog recently, no updates". Well......... Here's an update for you blog people:
Updates: I saw my surgeon Dr. Michelle Specht at Mass General Hospital on Friday.(Young, vibrant,intelligent, great bedside manner, 30 something female). Having a consultation with her once again only reiterated my confidence in her to take good care of me. Surgery is slated for the end of May, early June. Specific date to follow.
My very last 5 hour Chemo infusion is on April 30th. I think I'll bring party hats and baloons that day!!!!!!! The week after after that is another one hour infusion and the week following that is my very official very last (any hour) infusion. Surgery and radiation to follow. Radiation will be 6 weeks long Monday thru Friday. Yes, you heard me right. Every single day for 6 weeks. Yuck!!!! Glen's going to have his hands full making me laugh in that time frame. (Hey, it's 3:02 a.m. exactly)!!
Don't forget to check out the You Tubes that My Alex has added to this blog.(Thank you my Alex, I do appreciate and love you very much)! One is of my little Alex Jr"s. year in review and the other is My Arielle and Brent singing as a duo at a pub.
Again, I challenge you to comment on my blog. If you are technilogically challenged like me, you can always leave me a message on the old-fashioned e=mail. I went from a whopping 0 comments to 5 last time. Can we break the record this time. I'd like to think so. You can do it. I have faith in you!!!!!
I remain Positive, Hopeful, and Crazy!!!!! CEO Vic-TREE Team support Group
I have to laugh when some of you comment, "I've checked your blog recently, no updates". Well......... Here's an update for you blog people:
Updates: I saw my surgeon Dr. Michelle Specht at Mass General Hospital on Friday.(Young, vibrant,intelligent, great bedside manner, 30 something female). Having a consultation with her once again only reiterated my confidence in her to take good care of me. Surgery is slated for the end of May, early June. Specific date to follow.
My very last 5 hour Chemo infusion is on April 30th. I think I'll bring party hats and baloons that day!!!!!!! The week after after that is another one hour infusion and the week following that is my very official very last (any hour) infusion. Surgery and radiation to follow. Radiation will be 6 weeks long Monday thru Friday. Yes, you heard me right. Every single day for 6 weeks. Yuck!!!! Glen's going to have his hands full making me laugh in that time frame. (Hey, it's 3:02 a.m. exactly)!!
Don't forget to check out the You Tubes that My Alex has added to this blog.(Thank you my Alex, I do appreciate and love you very much)! One is of my little Alex Jr"s. year in review and the other is My Arielle and Brent singing as a duo at a pub.
Again, I challenge you to comment on my blog. If you are technilogically challenged like me, you can always leave me a message on the old-fashioned e=mail. I went from a whopping 0 comments to 5 last time. Can we break the record this time. I'd like to think so. You can do it. I have faith in you!!!!!
I remain Positive, Hopeful, and Crazy!!!!! CEO Vic-TREE Team support Group
Friday, April 10, 2009
Crazy (Medication Induced) Cancer Dream!
Thursday April 9, 2009
My 5th Chemo Round - I made it through the day thanks to Another Theresa on my right and a Nadine on my left. Yes we talked and I did listen on occasion, honest.
Up every few hours thanks to my Chemo drugs. (They added another to my protocol to help the horrific stomach pain that I endure for days after. So far, so good!
Just had a crazy cancer drug induced dream I thought I'd share.
So I'm sleeping but the phone rings: (It's a dream remember)!!
Rr--in-g-g, R-ii-ng. Hello, this it the cancer recruiter. I'm just calling to tell you the your number has been selected. (What)!! Are you kidding me????
"Congratulations, " interrupts the Cancer Recruiter. "You, Theresa have been specially selected to receive our amazing FREE offer-- no acting experience necessary. We're running some specials you'll love. We have a real deal on a rather significant tumor on your left side. With some possible spread available through the end of the month. Which credit card will you use to purchase this free offer today?"
Well, I hate to interrupt you, you're doing such a great job, but I'm really not interested at this time (or ever for that matter)!!!
I wake up shortly after and realize while that was dream, I'm living a nightmare!!
Unfortunately, cancer does not discriminate. Cancer is not polite. It has no social graces or manners. It comes uninvited. It has no prejudices. It invades young and old, rich and poor, male and female. And it wakes you up in the middle of the night and doesn't allow you to go back to sleep. Cancer Sucks!!!!
On a good note: I found another great book to read called, "Breast Cancer and Me". The hope-filled and sometimes humorous story of a B.C.survivor. So I'll go back to bed and read until I'm exhausted again and finally get back to sleep.
I hope I'm done with the dreaming phone calls for one night.
I remain insane, yet unusally positive and hopeful!! I need to (I will) get through this to help others.
CEO Theresa, Tree, Nini, SF
My 5th Chemo Round - I made it through the day thanks to Another Theresa on my right and a Nadine on my left. Yes we talked and I did listen on occasion, honest.
Up every few hours thanks to my Chemo drugs. (They added another to my protocol to help the horrific stomach pain that I endure for days after. So far, so good!
Just had a crazy cancer drug induced dream I thought I'd share.
So I'm sleeping but the phone rings: (It's a dream remember)!!
Rr--in-g-g, R-ii-ng. Hello, this it the cancer recruiter. I'm just calling to tell you the your number has been selected. (What)!! Are you kidding me????
"Congratulations, " interrupts the Cancer Recruiter. "You, Theresa have been specially selected to receive our amazing FREE offer-- no acting experience necessary. We're running some specials you'll love. We have a real deal on a rather significant tumor on your left side. With some possible spread available through the end of the month. Which credit card will you use to purchase this free offer today?"
Well, I hate to interrupt you, you're doing such a great job, but I'm really not interested at this time (or ever for that matter)!!!
I wake up shortly after and realize while that was dream, I'm living a nightmare!!
Unfortunately, cancer does not discriminate. Cancer is not polite. It has no social graces or manners. It comes uninvited. It has no prejudices. It invades young and old, rich and poor, male and female. And it wakes you up in the middle of the night and doesn't allow you to go back to sleep. Cancer Sucks!!!!
On a good note: I found another great book to read called, "Breast Cancer and Me". The hope-filled and sometimes humorous story of a B.C.survivor. So I'll go back to bed and read until I'm exhausted again and finally get back to sleep.
I hope I'm done with the dreaming phone calls for one night.
I remain insane, yet unusally positive and hopeful!! I need to (I will) get through this to help others.
CEO Theresa, Tree, Nini, SF
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
My First Official Blog/ Are You Kidding ME??
Tuesday April 7, 2009
For My Vic-TREE Support Group
It's True--this is my first official blog. I had my son Alex forward the last one because I couldn't figure out how to compose from the blog--DUH!!!! I can't even blame that on Chemo Brain.
Speaking of which, I have a doctor's appt. tomorrow, along with blood work. Thursday April 9th is my 5th Chemo, my 5 hour infusion--yipee-yahooewy!! (Next Thurs. is an hour infusion and the Thurs. after another 1 hr.) Basically, I'm at the Chemo Palace every week until another 5 hr. infusion commences. (This is really getting old)! Thank goodness my 6th Chemo (in 3 wks.) is my LAST CHEMO! O.k., so then I have surgery and radiation to follow, whatever! As I have said, I now know why they call this a journey.
I felt bad for the male nurse last week. He asked me how I was doing as he stuck the needle into the port in my right arm. I smiled, turned my head to the left, and the tears streamed down my face. Not bad considering I've been smiling since January during Chemo. It's official, I am human.
I usually spend the time reading, listening to my ipod or talking with other patients who seem like they want to talk. (Really, I don't do all the talking.) I've made a concerted effort to listen more. (I know what you're thinking my David, but it's true).
I spent some quality time with my beautiful, almost 2 month old. grandaughter Ashlyn today. She smells so sweet. She's absolutely adorable! She, like my Alex Jr., makes my heart sing!
We are celebrating our Easter tomorrow with Alex, Alyssa and the babies. I will be down for the count on Easter due to my heavy duty Chemo on Thursday. The side effects continue to be random and insidious, however a constant is fatigue and the worse stomach ache for 2-4 days after. Go figure-- that's what toxic drugs do to your insides.
Thanks to all of you who were somehow involved in our very successful Vic-TREE fundraiser this past Sat. April 4th. I so appreciate your time, talents, love and support! I certainly felt loved, surrounded by friends and family!
I remain, Positively (Insane)!!! Hopeful (That this will all be behind me very soon.) (So I can get on with helping others)!
O.K,, so I figured out how to blog today! (Yes, my son gave me step-by-step instructions.)
I now challenge you to make a comment on my blog. You can do it, I have faith in you! Because looking at 1 comments (plural) is depressing!
CEO Theresa, Tree, SF. Nini
hu
For My Vic-TREE Support Group
It's True--this is my first official blog. I had my son Alex forward the last one because I couldn't figure out how to compose from the blog--DUH!!!! I can't even blame that on Chemo Brain.
Speaking of which, I have a doctor's appt. tomorrow, along with blood work. Thursday April 9th is my 5th Chemo, my 5 hour infusion--yipee-yahooewy!! (Next Thurs. is an hour infusion and the Thurs. after another 1 hr.) Basically, I'm at the Chemo Palace every week until another 5 hr. infusion commences. (This is really getting old)! Thank goodness my 6th Chemo (in 3 wks.) is my LAST CHEMO! O.k., so then I have surgery and radiation to follow, whatever! As I have said, I now know why they call this a journey.
I felt bad for the male nurse last week. He asked me how I was doing as he stuck the needle into the port in my right arm. I smiled, turned my head to the left, and the tears streamed down my face. Not bad considering I've been smiling since January during Chemo. It's official, I am human.
I usually spend the time reading, listening to my ipod or talking with other patients who seem like they want to talk. (Really, I don't do all the talking.) I've made a concerted effort to listen more. (I know what you're thinking my David, but it's true).
I spent some quality time with my beautiful, almost 2 month old. grandaughter Ashlyn today. She smells so sweet. She's absolutely adorable! She, like my Alex Jr., makes my heart sing!
We are celebrating our Easter tomorrow with Alex, Alyssa and the babies. I will be down for the count on Easter due to my heavy duty Chemo on Thursday. The side effects continue to be random and insidious, however a constant is fatigue and the worse stomach ache for 2-4 days after. Go figure-- that's what toxic drugs do to your insides.
Thanks to all of you who were somehow involved in our very successful Vic-TREE fundraiser this past Sat. April 4th. I so appreciate your time, talents, love and support! I certainly felt loved, surrounded by friends and family!
I remain, Positively (Insane)!!! Hopeful (That this will all be behind me very soon.) (So I can get on with helping others)!
O.K,, so I figured out how to blog today! (Yes, my son gave me step-by-step instructions.)
I now challenge you to make a comment on my blog. You can do it, I have faith in you! Because looking at 1 comments (plural) is depressing!
CEO Theresa, Tree, SF. Nini
hu
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
A Foolish Report
For My Vic-TREE Support Group
Wed. April 1, 2009 April Fools Day!
I've never been a fan of practical joking! It's always made me uncomfortable and ill at ease. However, April 1st was a teachable moment for my kids(and
students). I had to let them know what the day was all about. Afterall, I'm a mother and a teacher.
My fondest memories are when my kids were small and just learning what the day meant. They spent all day saying, "Mommy, look, you have a bug on your head"!!!!!
Good one...
As they grew older and wiser, it was harder to come up with something before they did. A couple of my favorites:
Arielle was maybe a sophomore in high school, the boys were off to college. I went into her room and declared, no school, due to SNOW!!! She believed me! Not too
cruel, and it worked.
My other favorite, also fooling my poor daughter, she was a junior in high school??, I told her that her very kind and generous godfather, Uncle David, decided to bring
Arielle on their family vacation to help babysit there younger kids at the time. Well, of course they were going to Hawaii, and of course she was ebulliently, exuberantly all for it. And Uncle David is extremely generous, not too far a stretch. She believed me, I was starting to believe me. She shared the news all day at school with friends, at work with customers(You get the picture). When she came
home at the end of her day. I said, "OOOPS, April Fools!!" I'm not sure she's forgiven me for that one yet.
Change in subject: Story of my life!!!!!
I just finished reading yet another book on the B.C. topic. This one is about prevention of the disease.
It lists many things to stay away from:
> Don't smoke - check
> Stay away from caffiene - check (I've never drank coffee)
> Limit your alcohol - (I don't drink)(O.K., maybe a frozen magarita every 6 mo. or so)
> Eat a healthy diet - (Hello, spinach and black beans)
> Exercise - Are you kidding me, everyday of my life since I was 16!!!!!
O.K., so it may be environmental (chemicals and such). Who knew I was supposed to live in a bubble.
So, here I wait for the doctors to call me and tell me the biggest April Fools joke of my life.
"Theresa, we seem to have made a mistake, it was Tessa Herbert's pathology report we read to you, Not Theresa Hebert's. Ooops!!
So, I'm waiting for that phone call. In the meantime, I'm off for more blood work, more Chemo, More doctors appts., waiting on surgery in June (my hair to grow back)
and radiation to follow.
In spite of all that, I remain, Positive, Hopeful, Crazy (So Crazy, You could say, I'm just one raisen short of being a fruitcake)!!
Enjoy the day! I plan to.
CEO, Theresa, Tree, Nini, SF
Wed. April 1, 2009 April Fools Day!
I've never been a fan of practical joking! It's always made me uncomfortable and ill at ease. However, April 1st was a teachable moment for my kids(and
students). I had to let them know what the day was all about. Afterall, I'm a mother and a teacher.
My fondest memories are when my kids were small and just learning what the day meant. They spent all day saying, "Mommy, look, you have a bug on your head"!!!!!
Good one...
As they grew older and wiser, it was harder to come up with something before they did. A couple of my favorites:
Arielle was maybe a sophomore in high school, the boys were off to college. I went into her room and declared, no school, due to SNOW!!! She believed me! Not too
cruel, and it worked.
My other favorite, also fooling my poor daughter, she was a junior in high school??, I told her that her very kind and generous godfather, Uncle David, decided to bring
Arielle on their family vacation to help babysit there younger kids at the time. Well, of course they were going to Hawaii, and of course she was ebulliently, exuberantly all for it. And Uncle David is extremely generous, not too far a stretch. She believed me, I was starting to believe me. She shared the news all day at school with friends, at work with customers(You get the picture). When she came
home at the end of her day. I said, "OOOPS, April Fools!!" I'm not sure she's forgiven me for that one yet.
Change in subject: Story of my life!!!!!
I just finished reading yet another book on the B.C. topic. This one is about prevention of the disease.
It lists many things to stay away from:
> Don't smoke - check
> Stay away from caffiene - check (I've never drank coffee)
> Limit your alcohol - (I don't drink)(O.K., maybe a frozen magarita every 6 mo. or so)
> Eat a healthy diet - (Hello, spinach and black beans)
> Exercise - Are you kidding me, everyday of my life since I was 16!!!!!
O.K., so it may be environmental (chemicals and such). Who knew I was supposed to live in a bubble.
So, here I wait for the doctors to call me and tell me the biggest April Fools joke of my life.
"Theresa, we seem to have made a mistake, it was Tessa Herbert's pathology report we read to you, Not Theresa Hebert's. Ooops!!
So, I'm waiting for that phone call. In the meantime, I'm off for more blood work, more Chemo, More doctors appts., waiting on surgery in June (my hair to grow back)
and radiation to follow.
In spite of all that, I remain, Positive, Hopeful, Crazy (So Crazy, You could say, I'm just one raisen short of being a fruitcake)!!
Enjoy the day! I plan to.
CEO, Theresa, Tree, Nini, SF
Friday, March 20, 2009
Email #21 - Mar. 20, 2009
Friday, March 20th 2009
Happy Spring time to my Victory (Vic-TREE) Support Group
Spring is my favorite time of year!!! I'm so happy that it's here!!!
A Tree Reflection:
Among the well over 55 books I have read since my diagnosis on 12-22-08,(most of you know I am a voracious reader),O.K. so I have some extra time on my hands.) I am struck by how frequently in life we are tested by adversity. If we allow ourselves to use it as a lesson and a path forward, we can emerge from our pain on the other side, (can't wait to get there), stronger and more alive than before.
One of my favorite stories tells of a butterfly's cocoon. Someone sees the movement of the butterfly pressing against the wall of the cocoon, and they think they'll help it along and just cut a little hole in the cocoon so the butterfly can come on out with ease. But the butterfly dies soon after. There's a reason why it's beating its wings against the wall of the cocoon--to make it stronger. That's the way I like to think about the trials and tribulations we go through. They're meant to make us stonger.
With discipline, determination and stamina, I hope this change in my life makes me stronger , kinder and more connected to the world around me.
As I wrote the word stronger, I could hear some of you calling me (as you have in the past), Wonder Woman, Superwomen, A Rock Star, The Rock in the storm, and my Nicky Noodle's shared poem about, "The strongest TREES in the forest will withstand the harshest winds." The winds are blowing once again. My roots are standing tall and firm.
Thank you for your continued Love, Care and Support.
Thanks to you my home is filled with Daffodils and Daisies, Cards and Letters, Hope for a better day!
I remain, Positive, Hopeful, and Crazy!!
CEO and Founder of The Vic-TREE Team
Theresa, Tree, Nini,SF
Today's Quote: "A Friend is a sheltering TREE!" MJ
Happy Spring time to my Victory (Vic-TREE) Support Group
Spring is my favorite time of year!!! I'm so happy that it's here!!!
A Tree Reflection:
Among the well over 55 books I have read since my diagnosis on 12-22-08,(most of you know I am a voracious reader),O.K. so I have some extra time on my hands.) I am struck by how frequently in life we are tested by adversity. If we allow ourselves to use it as a lesson and a path forward, we can emerge from our pain on the other side, (can't wait to get there), stronger and more alive than before.
One of my favorite stories tells of a butterfly's cocoon. Someone sees the movement of the butterfly pressing against the wall of the cocoon, and they think they'll help it along and just cut a little hole in the cocoon so the butterfly can come on out with ease. But the butterfly dies soon after. There's a reason why it's beating its wings against the wall of the cocoon--to make it stronger. That's the way I like to think about the trials and tribulations we go through. They're meant to make us stonger.
With discipline, determination and stamina, I hope this change in my life makes me stronger , kinder and more connected to the world around me.
As I wrote the word stronger, I could hear some of you calling me (as you have in the past), Wonder Woman, Superwomen, A Rock Star, The Rock in the storm, and my Nicky Noodle's shared poem about, "The strongest TREES in the forest will withstand the harshest winds." The winds are blowing once again. My roots are standing tall and firm.
Thank you for your continued Love, Care and Support.
Thanks to you my home is filled with Daffodils and Daisies, Cards and Letters, Hope for a better day!
I remain, Positive, Hopeful, and Crazy!!
CEO and Founder of The Vic-TREE Team
Theresa, Tree, Nini,SF
Today's Quote: "A Friend is a sheltering TREE!" MJ
Email #20 - Mar. 18, 2008
The Short (Tree) Report
For my Vic-TREE support Group
This week was more blood work, doctor's appt., doctor's appt., blood work, doctor's appt. phew.... (I know, sounds like fun)!
Tomorrow Thursday March 19, 2009 is Chemo Round 4 (The five hour Chemo cocktail) yes I said 5 hours---with two more to go. Followed by Surgery sometime early June, Radiation -- (I was hoping that I was radiant enough)!!!
Trying to focus on the positive (give me a moment...hummmoh yeah)--- My precious grandchildren Alex and Ashlyn!!!! Going to get my dose of love from them tonight to get
through the next few days in my Chemo cave -> My bedroom with the shades pulled down on the not feeling so hot days.
Thank you all for your continued support (Daffodils)(A sure sign of Spring time) and more.
I continue to be HOPEFUL, Positive, and definitely crazy.
Theresa, Tree, SF
Is this over yet????
For my Vic-TREE support Group
This week was more blood work, doctor's appt., doctor's appt., blood work, doctor's appt. phew.... (I know, sounds like fun)!
Tomorrow Thursday March 19, 2009 is Chemo Round 4 (The five hour Chemo cocktail) yes I said 5 hours---with two more to go. Followed by Surgery sometime early June, Radiation -- (I was hoping that I was radiant enough)!!!
Trying to focus on the positive (give me a moment...hummmoh yeah)--- My precious grandchildren Alex and Ashlyn!!!! Going to get my dose of love from them tonight to get
through the next few days in my Chemo cave -> My bedroom with the shades pulled down on the not feeling so hot days.
Thank you all for your continued support (Daffodils)(A sure sign of Spring time) and more.
I continue to be HOPEFUL, Positive, and definitely crazy.
Theresa, Tree, SF
Is this over yet????
Vic-Tree Fundraiser Info - Mar. 12, 2009
Please hold the date: Saturday April 4, 2009
We are planning a Fundraiser for my mom and dad, Theresa and Glen Hebert.
It is planned for the first Sat. in April at TheSandbar Grills Function Room, 64 Weir St. Taunton, MA.
My brother Brent's band-Blaque Lyte will be playing. For more information about tickets, time etc. please e-mail me: - Arielle Hebert at
a3hebert@bridgew.edu
or my Auntie Trish (Trish Neill) at
tneill@conway-financial.com
Thank you very much for being so supportive of my mom during her illness.
Thank you,
Arielle Hebert
If anyone would like to donate their time, efforts, or money please don't hesitate to contact either myself or my Auntie Trish. We would like to have a number of prizes to raffle off during the benefit. Any ideas or help will be greatly appreciated.
Tricia Neill- tneill@conway-financial.com Cell: 508-326-4485 Home:508-880-6048
Brent Hebert- bhebert87@yahoo.com Cell: (508)304-3523
Thank you,
Brent
We are planning a Fundraiser for my mom and dad, Theresa and Glen Hebert.
It is planned for the first Sat. in April at TheSandbar Grills Function Room, 64 Weir St. Taunton, MA.
My brother Brent's band-Blaque Lyte will be playing. For more information about tickets, time etc. please e-mail me: - Arielle Hebert at
a3hebert@bridgew.edu
or my Auntie Trish (Trish Neill) at
tneill@conway-financial.com
Thank you very much for being so supportive of my mom during her illness.
Thank you,
Arielle Hebert
If anyone would like to donate their time, efforts, or money please don't hesitate to contact either myself or my Auntie Trish. We would like to have a number of prizes to raffle off during the benefit. Any ideas or help will be greatly appreciated.
Tricia Neill- tneill@conway-financial.com Cell: 508-326-4485 Home:508-880-6048
Brent Hebert- bhebert87@yahoo.com Cell: (508)304-3523
Thank you,
Brent
Email #19 - Mar. 9, 2009
To My Vic-TREE (Victory) Support Group
Monday 3-9-09
Today is a Good Day! I'm Feeling Good today. It's Rainy/snowy outside but I'm making my own sunshine! I am sooooo very excited today! As I write to you, my brother-in-law Stanley's sister Adele "The Artist", is drawing my "TREE OF HOPE" in my new pink bathroom. She had asked my sister Marie what she could do for me. (Warning: Be careful what you Ask) I had envisioned a "TREE OF HOPE" drawn on the biggest wall with leaves of inspirational messages like peace, hope, love, light... It is more beautiful than I could ever have imagined, and she's just getting started. She has a passion for her painting, and it shows. She's knee deep in paint and in her own zone. What a special gift of her time and talents. I am so appreciative of the love being sent my way. I am so lucky to have such wonderful people in my life.
Speaking of which: Thank you for understanding that a Chemo patient is not supposed to hug, kiss, shake hands, etc. due to the germ factor. (possible low white blood count etc.) Just when you need attention the most... Thank you for your creative ways to show me love. (Kissing me on my scarf and head (Cailyn's idea), elbowing, bumming.... Who loves hugging more than me??? I miss it so, but I have to be careful. Thanks for understanding.
Reflection: I have an appt. with the plastic surgeon at Mass.General Hospital next Tues. So I've been contemplating some things. Why?? do you never hear of anyone having BUM-Cancer. I mean you hear about Mastectomy - loss of a breast. But what about - a little loss of your bottom. Come on ladies, you know what I'm talking about. I wouldn't mind at all if the doctor said, "Theresa, we found a few suspicious spots on your hips and thighs, we have to do a BUM-ectomy!! Yes!!! Now you're talking. A little less in the rear, a little less on the treadmill.
I remain Positive, Hopeful and Crazy about my New "Tree ofHope"
CEO Tree, Theresa, SFP.S.
P.S. Remember to ask to see my "Tree of Hope" when you come to visit. You'll be glad you did. Who knew my bathroom would look like something from the Museum of Fine Art??
Monday 3-9-09
Today is a Good Day! I'm Feeling Good today. It's Rainy/snowy outside but I'm making my own sunshine! I am sooooo very excited today! As I write to you, my brother-in-law Stanley's sister Adele "The Artist", is drawing my "TREE OF HOPE" in my new pink bathroom. She had asked my sister Marie what she could do for me. (Warning: Be careful what you Ask) I had envisioned a "TREE OF HOPE" drawn on the biggest wall with leaves of inspirational messages like peace, hope, love, light... It is more beautiful than I could ever have imagined, and she's just getting started. She has a passion for her painting, and it shows. She's knee deep in paint and in her own zone. What a special gift of her time and talents. I am so appreciative of the love being sent my way. I am so lucky to have such wonderful people in my life.
Speaking of which: Thank you for understanding that a Chemo patient is not supposed to hug, kiss, shake hands, etc. due to the germ factor. (possible low white blood count etc.) Just when you need attention the most... Thank you for your creative ways to show me love. (Kissing me on my scarf and head (Cailyn's idea), elbowing, bumming.... Who loves hugging more than me??? I miss it so, but I have to be careful. Thanks for understanding.
Reflection: I have an appt. with the plastic surgeon at Mass.General Hospital next Tues. So I've been contemplating some things. Why?? do you never hear of anyone having BUM-Cancer. I mean you hear about Mastectomy - loss of a breast. But what about - a little loss of your bottom. Come on ladies, you know what I'm talking about. I wouldn't mind at all if the doctor said, "Theresa, we found a few suspicious spots on your hips and thighs, we have to do a BUM-ectomy!! Yes!!! Now you're talking. A little less in the rear, a little less on the treadmill.
I remain Positive, Hopeful and Crazy about my New "Tree ofHope"
CEO Tree, Theresa, SFP.S.
P.S. Remember to ask to see my "Tree of Hope" when you come to visit. You'll be glad you did. Who knew my bathroom would look like something from the Museum of Fine Art??
Email #18 - Feb. 27, 2009
A Tree Reflection
For my ever-growing Victory (Vic-TREE) Team of support!
Friday 2-27-09 1:00 a.m. Help!...
Going BALDLY where I've never been before...
Breast Cancer: My Character-Building experience.
From the diagnosis on, I have been surrounded by the love and support of friends and family. A special thank you to my cousin Jeff who was brave enough to call me tonight at midnight when I sent out my (as my son Alex might suggest) "desperate plea for attention". Glen has always said I have an attention deficit disorder. Luckily my dog Rocky has the same disorder and loves attention too! He is there for me 24/7. Your love and support has been so strong I believe I will feel this reverberation inside of me for always. Like the silence you hear when the music you are listening to (Blaque Lyte if you're lucky) stops playing, it will echo and stay a part of me for ever. I am propelled forward by HOPE, FAITH, and LOVE and a deep primal mothering determination to be here for my children and grandchildren.
As I said, I do have my moments, I'm only human (Are you singing the tune from the 80's in your head or just me? "I'm only human, of flesh and blood are made" (musicalnotes)). O.K, it's the drugs! But what I have realized after allowing myself to let go (on occasion)- the world looks cleaner and brighter after a good soul-cleansing cry. You should try it sometime. It's a bit less commital than the bald thing and just as cathartic. Go for it!!!! So many of you have sweetly said, if you're up late just call me. Know, that I would and could never do that-Sorry. However, I will on occasion send out my desperate pleas for love and attention for e-mails and I look forward to the next brave soul who is also up and willing to call me at 1:00, 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning! (Ourphone is shut off in our bedroom, you only hear the ringer and messages downstairs if that helps you)!
I remain, Positive, Hopeful, Crazy and Hyper!!!!
CEO and Founder Theresa, Tree, Nini, SF
P.S.
Favorites quotes for this week:
And the winners are:
Drumroll please...
Anne and Scott for: "People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkleand shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within."
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, A dear Friend: (Some people are camera and print shy,unlike me) "Every day may not be Good, but there is something GOOD in every day."
For my ever-growing Victory (Vic-TREE) Team of support!
Friday 2-27-09 1:00 a.m. Help!...
Going BALDLY where I've never been before...
Breast Cancer: My Character-Building experience.
From the diagnosis on, I have been surrounded by the love and support of friends and family. A special thank you to my cousin Jeff who was brave enough to call me tonight at midnight when I sent out my (as my son Alex might suggest) "desperate plea for attention". Glen has always said I have an attention deficit disorder. Luckily my dog Rocky has the same disorder and loves attention too! He is there for me 24/7. Your love and support has been so strong I believe I will feel this reverberation inside of me for always. Like the silence you hear when the music you are listening to (Blaque Lyte if you're lucky) stops playing, it will echo and stay a part of me for ever. I am propelled forward by HOPE, FAITH, and LOVE and a deep primal mothering determination to be here for my children and grandchildren.
As I said, I do have my moments, I'm only human (Are you singing the tune from the 80's in your head or just me? "I'm only human, of flesh and blood are made" (musicalnotes)). O.K, it's the drugs! But what I have realized after allowing myself to let go (on occasion)- the world looks cleaner and brighter after a good soul-cleansing cry. You should try it sometime. It's a bit less commital than the bald thing and just as cathartic. Go for it!!!! So many of you have sweetly said, if you're up late just call me. Know, that I would and could never do that-Sorry. However, I will on occasion send out my desperate pleas for love and attention for e-mails and I look forward to the next brave soul who is also up and willing to call me at 1:00, 2:00 or 3:00 in the morning! (Ourphone is shut off in our bedroom, you only hear the ringer and messages downstairs if that helps you)!
I remain, Positive, Hopeful, Crazy and Hyper!!!!
CEO and Founder Theresa, Tree, Nini, SF
P.S.
Favorites quotes for this week:
And the winners are:
Drumroll please...
Anne and Scott for: "People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkleand shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within."
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, A dear Friend: (Some people are camera and print shy,unlike me) "Every day may not be Good, but there is something GOOD in every day."
Email #17 - Feb 23, 2009
The Tree Report
For my Victory (Vic-TREE) Support Group!
Monday 2-23-09
I had an appt. with the oncologist today. The 10 cm. tumor is down to 6 cm. It's nice to know that the Chemo-cocktail is doing it's job!!
Wed. 2-25-09
A visit with my favorite phelbotomistPat! Hi Pat! I have my blood drawn at least once a week. I don't feel a thing, she does an awesome job!
Thurs. 2-26-09
I have my pink boxing gloves ready formy 3rd round of Chemo. 3 more to go, every 3 weeks. Chemo should end sometime mid to the end of May with surgery to follow in June. (Yes, that's why they call this a journey)!
Sunday was family day! (I love family day) We added a new baby girl to the family TREE!!! Ashlyn our new baby grandaughter and Alex's (2 yrs. old) little sister. More love, more joy!!! I was happily holding Ashlyn while Grandpa Glen played guitar and drums with Alex. (The parents were smart enough to leave the drums at our house) As well they playedi ndoor baseball. (Grandpa's getting Alex ready for littleleague). I loved that Ashlyn came to Nini and Grandpa's house right from the hospital. After a delicious meal cooked by Grandpa (How lucky are we?) It was such a Joy to watch them enter their new vehicle for the very first time all together as a family as their headed for home.
Life is Good!
Thank you all for your continued Love, Care, Support,Cards, e-mails, flowers, scratch tickets, giftcertificates, homemade quilts, homemade prayer shawls (beautiful idea), ipod touch (I know), cd player (that actually works), cd's, soups for my soul, picnic lunches, buttermilk pancakes and coffee frappes (Yum), hand made jewelry, and so much more.
I continue to be overwhelmed with your kindness and generosity. I am proud to be part of such a wonderful human race.
CEO and Founder of The Vic-TREE Support Group
I remain Positive, Hopeful and Crazy!
Quotes:
"The Challenges in Life are a part of our life and that'show we learn." B.G.
"Friends are needed both for Joy and for sorrow." Mary-JoThank you friends for being there.
For my Victory (Vic-TREE) Support Group!
Monday 2-23-09
I had an appt. with the oncologist today. The 10 cm. tumor is down to 6 cm. It's nice to know that the Chemo-cocktail is doing it's job!!
Wed. 2-25-09
A visit with my favorite phelbotomistPat! Hi Pat! I have my blood drawn at least once a week. I don't feel a thing, she does an awesome job!
Thurs. 2-26-09
I have my pink boxing gloves ready formy 3rd round of Chemo. 3 more to go, every 3 weeks. Chemo should end sometime mid to the end of May with surgery to follow in June. (Yes, that's why they call this a journey)!
Sunday was family day! (I love family day) We added a new baby girl to the family TREE!!! Ashlyn our new baby grandaughter and Alex's (2 yrs. old) little sister. More love, more joy!!! I was happily holding Ashlyn while Grandpa Glen played guitar and drums with Alex. (The parents were smart enough to leave the drums at our house) As well they playedi ndoor baseball. (Grandpa's getting Alex ready for littleleague). I loved that Ashlyn came to Nini and Grandpa's house right from the hospital. After a delicious meal cooked by Grandpa (How lucky are we?) It was such a Joy to watch them enter their new vehicle for the very first time all together as a family as their headed for home.
Life is Good!
Thank you all for your continued Love, Care, Support,Cards, e-mails, flowers, scratch tickets, giftcertificates, homemade quilts, homemade prayer shawls (beautiful idea), ipod touch (I know), cd player (that actually works), cd's, soups for my soul, picnic lunches, buttermilk pancakes and coffee frappes (Yum), hand made jewelry, and so much more.
I continue to be overwhelmed with your kindness and generosity. I am proud to be part of such a wonderful human race.
CEO and Founder of The Vic-TREE Support Group
I remain Positive, Hopeful and Crazy!
Quotes:
"The Challenges in Life are a part of our life and that'show we learn." B.G.
"Friends are needed both for Joy and for sorrow." Mary-JoThank you friends for being there.
Email #16 - Feb. 23, 2009
"Kind Hearts for Theresa"
Yet another wonderful expressive of love and care thata friend is doing for me. Some of you had asked about the beautiful jewelry that Sue DaSilva is making in my honor. She is my manicurist and dear friend. She works at Family Styling Salon on Broadway in Taunton (Wed. - Friday) and has been selling the jewelry there as well as Friedman Middle School, T.H.S. and Bristol County Savings Bank. It's so overwhelming the kind hearts of human beings. It makes me so proud to be a human.
Warmly and Gratefully,
Theresa
P.S.
Sue's address for more information regarding thejewelry being made in Theresa's honor: s.dasilva@comcast.net
Yet another wonderful expressive of love and care thata friend is doing for me. Some of you had asked about the beautiful jewelry that Sue DaSilva is making in my honor. She is my manicurist and dear friend. She works at Family Styling Salon on Broadway in Taunton (Wed. - Friday) and has been selling the jewelry there as well as Friedman Middle School, T.H.S. and Bristol County Savings Bank. It's so overwhelming the kind hearts of human beings. It makes me so proud to be a human.
Warmly and Gratefully,
Theresa
P.S.
Sue's address for more information regarding thejewelry being made in Theresa's honor: s.dasilva@comcast.net
Email #15 - Feb. 20, 2009
Yes, I said "Pink Tree Report"!!! Friday, 2-20-09 MY BRAND NEW GRANDAUGHTER'S BIRTH-DAY! My brand new grandaugher "Ashlyn Ruth Hebert" was borntoday at 12:27 p.m. 7 lbs. 1/4 oz., 20 inches with abeautiful mop of dark hair. She's absolutely BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!! I was there towitness her birth. What a high!!!! She looks just likeher big brother Alex, my 2 yr. old grandson. Except, sheis tinier, and has dainty female features. Preciouslittle pink lips. So girl--ly!!! I am so blessed!!!! Ashlyn is the newest, youngest recruit of her Nini'sVic-Tree support team!!! TAlk about supportive. She'sthe best!!! Just like her big brother. She's alreadybringing me newborn JOY!!!! Thank you for your continued Support!!!!CEO and Proud Grandmother of Alex and Ashlyn!!!! NiniTree
Email #14 - Feb. 17, 2009
Hello Vic-Tree Team,
Vic-Tree Team Support Group Party!!!!!!
Please Mark your calendars for Sunday March 8th 5 p.m.Brent's Band Blaque Lyte will be playing at "Ba HABrothers Sandbar Grill, 64 Weir Street, Taunton, MA Wear a scarf, hat, wig, shave your head, or just come as you are.
I would love to see you all there. You won't be disappointed. Brent's musical band from Berklee College of Music is phenomenal. Arielle will be singing with the band. She's an amazing performer! (O.K., so I might be a bit prejudice, why don't you come and decide for yourself.)
Once you go Blaque, you'll never go back!!!!!!
CEO, Tree Make my day, - e-mail me and tell me you may be coming on March 8th!!!!
Vic-Tree Team Support Group Party!!!!!!
Please Mark your calendars for Sunday March 8th 5 p.m.Brent's Band Blaque Lyte will be playing at "Ba HABrothers Sandbar Grill, 64 Weir Street, Taunton, MA Wear a scarf, hat, wig, shave your head, or just come as you are.
I would love to see you all there. You won't be disappointed. Brent's musical band from Berklee College of Music is phenomenal. Arielle will be singing with the band. She's an amazing performer! (O.K., so I might be a bit prejudice, why don't you come and decide for yourself.)
Once you go Blaque, you'll never go back!!!!!!
CEO, Tree Make my day, - e-mail me and tell me you may be coming on March 8th!!!!
Email #13 - Feb. 14, 2009
Anne and Scott, ( and others from the Vic-Tree Team)
I love rainbows! They are one of my favorite things! Another favorite is Glen making me a Valentine's breakfast in Bed. Buttermilk pancakes, coffee milk,(I don't do caffeine, for obvious reasons) and a beautiful pink rose. Between hearing from my surgeon (whom I do love, just didn't enjoy the details of my future surgery) at Mass.General on Thursday, and Glen coming home laid off fromwork once again, yesterday was a blue day.
However, such are the vicissitudes of life.
I'm determined to get all the other colors of the rainbow back, it's way more fun than just blue. (O.K., soeveryone knows I'm human now)!!! Glen and I picked from a heart-shaped valentine box of notes that I got a few years back. We each picked one this morning for the fun of it. He picked his first and read it out loud, we spent the next 5 minutes laughing hysterically. Thank goodness I picked a guy who not only can cook, but has a great sense of humor.
The card read: "I'll wash your hair today"!
Now that's funny!
Thanks for your uplifting and beautiful e-mail.
Gratefully, Theresa
I love rainbows! They are one of my favorite things! Another favorite is Glen making me a Valentine's breakfast in Bed. Buttermilk pancakes, coffee milk,(I don't do caffeine, for obvious reasons) and a beautiful pink rose. Between hearing from my surgeon (whom I do love, just didn't enjoy the details of my future surgery) at Mass.General on Thursday, and Glen coming home laid off fromwork once again, yesterday was a blue day.
However, such are the vicissitudes of life.
I'm determined to get all the other colors of the rainbow back, it's way more fun than just blue. (O.K., soeveryone knows I'm human now)!!! Glen and I picked from a heart-shaped valentine box of notes that I got a few years back. We each picked one this morning for the fun of it. He picked his first and read it out loud, we spent the next 5 minutes laughing hysterically. Thank goodness I picked a guy who not only can cook, but has a great sense of humor.
The card read: "I'll wash your hair today"!
Now that's funny!
Thanks for your uplifting and beautiful e-mail.
Gratefully, Theresa
Email #12 - Feb. 13, 2009
"Middle Child Syndrome"
Looking for some attention today. Just a word or twofrom you will do.
Happy Valentine's Day to you all.
I hope it's special.
Blue Tree
Looking for some attention today. Just a word or twofrom you will do.
Happy Valentine's Day to you all.
I hope it's special.
Blue Tree
Email #11 - Feb. 12, 2009
A Tree Thought
For MY: Vic-TREE Support TEAM
Thursday Feb. 12, 2009
O.K., it's official, I have way too much time on my hands!!
Please consider downloading--- on your ipod or itunes on your computer this particular song. It helps breast cancer research and is awe inspiring for anyone needing inspiration and motivation.
Song: Just Stand UP! By Beyonce, Mary J and more.
Also, Just for fun, and no money, one fun song I listen to during Chemo is Bell Biv Devoe's song: "That Girl isPoison". It's quite appropriate as the Chemo Cocktail(Poison) is running thru my veins.
I have quite an ecletic, diverse choice of songs. I can go from Amazing Grace to My Son Brent's Songs he wrote, to Blaque Lyte and then to Bell Biv Devoe.
Now you know.......
P.S. -- Vic-TREE TEAM Support Field TRIP
Feb. 20, 2009 Boston Club (Brent's)Blaque Lyte Band Playing. A club near Fenway Park. Name and time to follow, hold the date. Next Friday Feb.20th. It will be so much fun to see everyone!
Happy Birthday Nick!
I remain, Positive, Hopeful and CRAZY!!!!!!!
Tree-CEO
For MY: Vic-TREE Support TEAM
Thursday Feb. 12, 2009
O.K., it's official, I have way too much time on my hands!!
Please consider downloading--- on your ipod or itunes on your computer this particular song. It helps breast cancer research and is awe inspiring for anyone needing inspiration and motivation.
Song: Just Stand UP! By Beyonce, Mary J and more.
Also, Just for fun, and no money, one fun song I listen to during Chemo is Bell Biv Devoe's song: "That Girl isPoison". It's quite appropriate as the Chemo Cocktail(Poison) is running thru my veins.
I have quite an ecletic, diverse choice of songs. I can go from Amazing Grace to My Son Brent's Songs he wrote, to Blaque Lyte and then to Bell Biv Devoe.
Now you know.......
P.S. -- Vic-TREE TEAM Support Field TRIP
Feb. 20, 2009 Boston Club (Brent's)Blaque Lyte Band Playing. A club near Fenway Park. Name and time to follow, hold the date. Next Friday Feb.20th. It will be so much fun to see everyone!
Happy Birthday Nick!
I remain, Positive, Hopeful and CRAZY!!!!!!!
Tree-CEO
Email #10 - Feb. 11, 2009
I forgot my quotes of the week.
They are very apropos.
"The last great human freedom humans have is choosing ones attitude".
Victor Frankl - Submitted by my buddy Beth W.
"It's not what you look at that matters, It's what you see".
Henry David Thoreau - Submitted by Christy, Stanley's sister
Thank you all for the quotes you send me. They are all in my journal. They help to keep me positive and inspired.
Beth W. and Christy, keep in mind, Glen is in charge of the Prize patrol, so good luck with that. If I were incharge you'd have your gift by today!
Sending my gift of love and gratitude,
Tree
They are very apropos.
"The last great human freedom humans have is choosing ones attitude".
Victor Frankl - Submitted by my buddy Beth W.
"It's not what you look at that matters, It's what you see".
Henry David Thoreau - Submitted by Christy, Stanley's sister
Thank you all for the quotes you send me. They are all in my journal. They help to keep me positive and inspired.
Beth W. and Christy, keep in mind, Glen is in charge of the Prize patrol, so good luck with that. If I were incharge you'd have your gift by today!
Sending my gift of love and gratitude,
Tree
Email #9 - Feb. 9, 2009
The Tree Report
For My Vic-TREE (Victory) TEAM
Monday Feb. 9th, 2009 - After My 2nd Chemo
Weeeeeellllll, The Sat. and Sunday after Chemo weren't the best. But again, I managed to press forward with Grace, for the most part. You know you are feeling the worst FATIGUE and nausea in the world when you spend a whole day in bed without even caring about showering. Yuck!!!
I slept a great deal. I'm trying to listen to my body, even though I don't always like what it seems to be saying. The sun was shining today (Monday), the weather was beautiful as you know---SOOOOOO Mandy and I went out on our very first outing. You remember Mandy--- (my newwig)! They say that we would never worry about what other people are thinking of us, if we realized just how little they were actually thinking of us. At first I felt self-concious until I realized no one really seemed to care.
Funny Story-- Once I returned home, my sister called to say, "Tree, did I just see you out driving???", to which I replied, "Yes, Mandy and I went for our first drive together,", to which she responded, "WHO???" DUH??? She said, "Really Tree, when I saw you, I forgot al labout the whole ---bald head wig--- thing, I just saw YOU! That's Cool!!!!
Many sweet and kind people who have had wives, sisters, mothers go thru their own B.C. journey are now sharing their wigs and head covers with me. How grateful am I? The guys at the Chemo palace do call me "Thefashionista" so I can't let them down can I???? Would you expect anyting different from me??? Really!!!
Thank you for your continued love, care, support, Food, Flowers, cards, letters, e-mails, phone calls, angels, gifts of love and more.
Most Gratefully yours, CEO and Founder Vic-TREE TEAM
Theresa, TRee, SFI remain Positive, Hopeful and Crazy!!!
For My Vic-TREE (Victory) TEAM
Monday Feb. 9th, 2009 - After My 2nd Chemo
Weeeeeellllll, The Sat. and Sunday after Chemo weren't the best. But again, I managed to press forward with Grace, for the most part. You know you are feeling the worst FATIGUE and nausea in the world when you spend a whole day in bed without even caring about showering. Yuck!!!
I slept a great deal. I'm trying to listen to my body, even though I don't always like what it seems to be saying. The sun was shining today (Monday), the weather was beautiful as you know---SOOOOOO Mandy and I went out on our very first outing. You remember Mandy--- (my newwig)! They say that we would never worry about what other people are thinking of us, if we realized just how little they were actually thinking of us. At first I felt self-concious until I realized no one really seemed to care.
Funny Story-- Once I returned home, my sister called to say, "Tree, did I just see you out driving???", to which I replied, "Yes, Mandy and I went for our first drive together,", to which she responded, "WHO???" DUH??? She said, "Really Tree, when I saw you, I forgot al labout the whole ---bald head wig--- thing, I just saw YOU! That's Cool!!!!
Many sweet and kind people who have had wives, sisters, mothers go thru their own B.C. journey are now sharing their wigs and head covers with me. How grateful am I? The guys at the Chemo palace do call me "Thefashionista" so I can't let them down can I???? Would you expect anyting different from me??? Really!!!
Thank you for your continued love, care, support, Food, Flowers, cards, letters, e-mails, phone calls, angels, gifts of love and more.
Most Gratefully yours, CEO and Founder Vic-TREE TEAM
Theresa, TRee, SFI remain Positive, Hopeful and Crazy!!!
Email #8 - Feb. 5, 2009
Haven't I said enough???
A Tree Addition - 2-5-08
Some of you were sweetly asking what I did with my hair. Ahhh, you know me all too well. Do I look like the type of person to trash something that another creature on earth could use? Absolutely not..... Of course I'm saving it. I had a mop of thick hair. It may have been short, but I filled a large size bowl in not ime. My plan is to build a bird's nest(maybe two or three)in the Spring time, my favorite time of year. I was married in the Spring, had all three of my babies in the Spring. Will be married to Glen 30 yrs. on May 18th. Yikes!!! How do we do it?? We laugh alot, ask the people around us. It's our favorite thing to do. (Well,one of our favorite things to do)! Tee hee. I plan to build and place the bird's nest of my hair, in a TREE outside my kitchen window, where I can happily watch a Mother bird care for her young.
I was inspired by a picture of my sister and I one Christmas just a few years back. Perhaps we were 8 and 10 yrs. old. The hair dresser did a Betty Boufaunt hairdo, we looked like we had bird's nest in our hair (Just likeMamma)! We loved it, didn't we look cool Marie?? And they added sparkles to our hair no less. We've been sparkling ever since. (And when we received a sparkled colored print robe for Christmas from our grandparents, we wore them the rest of Christmas day with all our cousins, aunts and uncles.) That only added to the sparkle thing! No, I'm not the only insane crazy cancer patient out there. I actually heard of other patients doing similar things with their hair and thought it was a great idea.
And that's your addition for the day!
Off to Chemo, wish me peace, tranquility and 5 hrs. of good reading and music listening.
Warmly, Tree
P.S. - I'm so thrilled I don't have to wash and style my hair today. No bedhead hair-- And..... no hat hair. YES!
Love, ME, Tree
A Tree Addition - 2-5-08
Some of you were sweetly asking what I did with my hair. Ahhh, you know me all too well. Do I look like the type of person to trash something that another creature on earth could use? Absolutely not..... Of course I'm saving it. I had a mop of thick hair. It may have been short, but I filled a large size bowl in not ime. My plan is to build a bird's nest(maybe two or three)in the Spring time, my favorite time of year. I was married in the Spring, had all three of my babies in the Spring. Will be married to Glen 30 yrs. on May 18th. Yikes!!! How do we do it?? We laugh alot, ask the people around us. It's our favorite thing to do. (Well,one of our favorite things to do)! Tee hee. I plan to build and place the bird's nest of my hair, in a TREE outside my kitchen window, where I can happily watch a Mother bird care for her young.
I was inspired by a picture of my sister and I one Christmas just a few years back. Perhaps we were 8 and 10 yrs. old. The hair dresser did a Betty Boufaunt hairdo, we looked like we had bird's nest in our hair (Just likeMamma)! We loved it, didn't we look cool Marie?? And they added sparkles to our hair no less. We've been sparkling ever since. (And when we received a sparkled colored print robe for Christmas from our grandparents, we wore them the rest of Christmas day with all our cousins, aunts and uncles.) That only added to the sparkle thing! No, I'm not the only insane crazy cancer patient out there. I actually heard of other patients doing similar things with their hair and thought it was a great idea.
And that's your addition for the day!
Off to Chemo, wish me peace, tranquility and 5 hrs. of good reading and music listening.
Warmly, Tree
P.S. - I'm so thrilled I don't have to wash and style my hair today. No bedhead hair-- And..... no hat hair. YES!
Love, ME, Tree
Email #7 - Feb. 5, 2009
The Tree Reflection/Report
For my Vic-TREE Support TEAM
Thurs. Feb. 5, 2009 (O.K. I know it's late, I have Chemo tomorrow, I'm on the hyper pill.)
You could say I'm having a NO HAIR DAY! Before all that (no hair) happened, I went to spend some quality time with my adorable, happy, smiley, handsome, intelligent, talented (You get the idea)GRANDson Alex Jr. He makes my heart sing. After spending time with him and talking to Alyssa's belly (Our baby grandaughter is due any day now. I was so elated I could have burst and/orshaved my head! It happened -- I didn't burst! Glen thinks I should audition for the new soap opera,"The Bald and The Beautiful". I think I could audition for The Bold and The Bald. After many BAD HAIR days and Bad Haircuts over the years, Glen would always smile and say, "YOU always look beautiful." To which I replied, someday I'm going to shave my head and see what you say then." Who knew..... After watching Demi Moore's movie, G.I. Jane, I thought wow, she shaved her head, how brave. Although, she did do it for a role. Wait a minute..... So did I.
Now playing,S tarring the Crazy, fun, silly, supportive, positive and empowering lady with Cancer. Only in theaters for a short time. Get your tickets now! The sequel, playing much longer is entitled, One Crazy Womens Happy Healing Journey. How she proved that you can get thru anything with a hopeful heart, positive attitude, prayer and love and support from a sensational group of friends and family.
I thought it might take me a day or two to get used to my new hairless head. I didn't know I would be happily, laughing and smiling trying on my scarfs and Mandy (my new wig). She's actually sort of cute. She reminds me of me coming home from the hair dresser. You know ladies, when we think, why can't it always look this good. Well, it can!!
I remain, Happy, Hopeful, Positive, and crazy.
Founder and CEO of The ever-growing Victory (Vic-TREE)Team
Theresa, Tree, SF
For my Vic-TREE Support TEAM
Thurs. Feb. 5, 2009 (O.K. I know it's late, I have Chemo tomorrow, I'm on the hyper pill.)
You could say I'm having a NO HAIR DAY! Before all that (no hair) happened, I went to spend some quality time with my adorable, happy, smiley, handsome, intelligent, talented (You get the idea)GRANDson Alex Jr. He makes my heart sing. After spending time with him and talking to Alyssa's belly (Our baby grandaughter is due any day now. I was so elated I could have burst and/orshaved my head! It happened -- I didn't burst! Glen thinks I should audition for the new soap opera,"The Bald and The Beautiful". I think I could audition for The Bold and The Bald. After many BAD HAIR days and Bad Haircuts over the years, Glen would always smile and say, "YOU always look beautiful." To which I replied, someday I'm going to shave my head and see what you say then." Who knew..... After watching Demi Moore's movie, G.I. Jane, I thought wow, she shaved her head, how brave. Although, she did do it for a role. Wait a minute..... So did I.
Now playing,S tarring the Crazy, fun, silly, supportive, positive and empowering lady with Cancer. Only in theaters for a short time. Get your tickets now! The sequel, playing much longer is entitled, One Crazy Womens Happy Healing Journey. How she proved that you can get thru anything with a hopeful heart, positive attitude, prayer and love and support from a sensational group of friends and family.
I thought it might take me a day or two to get used to my new hairless head. I didn't know I would be happily, laughing and smiling trying on my scarfs and Mandy (my new wig). She's actually sort of cute. She reminds me of me coming home from the hair dresser. You know ladies, when we think, why can't it always look this good. Well, it can!!
I remain, Happy, Hopeful, Positive, and crazy.
Founder and CEO of The ever-growing Victory (Vic-TREE)Team
Theresa, Tree, SF
Email #6 Feb. 4, 2006
A Tree Reflection
For my Victory (Vic-TREE) Support Group
Wed. Feb. 4th-My Sister-Friend and B.C. survivor'sB-day!
Happy Birthday SF Sheila!
My Tree Reflection for today:
"IT'S NOT WHAT'S HAPPENING TO YOU-----IT'S HOW YOU CHOOSE TO RESPOND TO WHAT'S HAPPENING TOYOU!"
These words will be resounding in my HEAD, as I get myHEAD shaved ----today??????
Tree Report:
My boxing gloves are on for my 2nd round of Chemo tomorrow, Thurs. Feb 5th. The doctor's appt. yesterday showed that the mass of cancer that was 10 cm. has shrunk down to 7 cm. YES!!! Let's keep shrinking. All your prayers are working! Thank you all for your continued LOVE, CARE AND SUPPORT!
I remain---Positive, Grateful, Hopeful,and Crazy!!!
Theresa CEO
For my Victory (Vic-TREE) Support Group
Wed. Feb. 4th-My Sister-Friend and B.C. survivor'sB-day!
Happy Birthday SF Sheila!
My Tree Reflection for today:
"IT'S NOT WHAT'S HAPPENING TO YOU-----IT'S HOW YOU CHOOSE TO RESPOND TO WHAT'S HAPPENING TOYOU!"
These words will be resounding in my HEAD, as I get myHEAD shaved ----today??????
Tree Report:
My boxing gloves are on for my 2nd round of Chemo tomorrow, Thurs. Feb 5th. The doctor's appt. yesterday showed that the mass of cancer that was 10 cm. has shrunk down to 7 cm. YES!!! Let's keep shrinking. All your prayers are working! Thank you all for your continued LOVE, CARE AND SUPPORT!
I remain---Positive, Grateful, Hopeful,and Crazy!!!
Theresa CEO
Email #5 - Feb. 3, 2009
A Tree Reflection
For my Vic-Tree (Victory) Support Group
Tuesday Feb. 3, 2009
Winter
When We Love Fully and Deeply,
Free Hearts All Aglow
We Only Feel Warmth
No Matter
How Deep the Snow.
Thinking of you all on this some what snowy day!
Thank you for your recent e-mails to lift my spirits, as my hair drops to the ground.
Theresa, Tree, SF, CEO
For my Vic-Tree (Victory) Support Group
Tuesday Feb. 3, 2009
Winter
When We Love Fully and Deeply,
Free Hearts All Aglow
We Only Feel Warmth
No Matter
How Deep the Snow.
Thinking of you all on this some what snowy day!
Thank you for your recent e-mails to lift my spirits, as my hair drops to the ground.
Theresa, Tree, SF, CEO
Email #5 - Feb. 3, 2009
A Tree Reflection
For my Vic-Tree (Victory) Support Group
Tuesday Feb. 3, 2009
Winter
When We Love Fully and Deeply,
Free Hearts All Aglow
We Only Feel Warmth
No Matter
How Deep the Snow.
Thinking of you all on this some what snowy day! Thank you for your recent e-mails to lift my spirits, as my hair drops to the ground.
Theresa, Tree, SF, CEO
For my Vic-Tree (Victory) Support Group
Tuesday Feb. 3, 2009
Winter
When We Love Fully and Deeply,
Free Hearts All Aglow
We Only Feel Warmth
No Matter
How Deep the Snow.
Thinking of you all on this some what snowy day! Thank you for your recent e-mails to lift my spirits, as my hair drops to the ground.
Theresa, Tree, SF, CEO
Email #4 - Jan. 31, 2009
The Tree Report
For My Vic-Tree Team Support Group
Sat. Jan. 31, 2009
Let me bring you up to speed....More blood work, more doctors appts, more Chemo next week. Tues. Feb. 3 blood work, doctor appt.
Thurs. Feb. 5 2nd Chemo Session.
I'm Feeling Good physically! A little blue today! You could say this gives a whole new meaning to "WinterBlues"!
You are now up to speed!
A Tree Reflection:
What Cancer Cannot Do:
Cancer is so limited.
It cannot cripple love.
It cannot shatter hope.
It cannot corrode faith.
It cannot destroy peace.
It cannot kill friendship.
It cannot suppress memories.
It cannot silence courage.
It cannot invade the soul.
It cannot steal eternal life.
It cannot conquer the spirit.
"The human spirit is greater than any Challenge."
I remain positive, hopeful, spirited and crazy! Thank you all for your continued support. I greatly appreciate your cards, letters, e-mails, gifts of love, food for my soul, flowers, prayers, mass cards, drives to my appts. and chemo, visits and more.
Thank you for being so wonderful during my winter of (dis)content!
CEO Theresa, Tree, SF
For My Vic-Tree Team Support Group
Sat. Jan. 31, 2009
Let me bring you up to speed....More blood work, more doctors appts, more Chemo next week. Tues. Feb. 3 blood work, doctor appt.
Thurs. Feb. 5 2nd Chemo Session.
I'm Feeling Good physically! A little blue today! You could say this gives a whole new meaning to "WinterBlues"!
You are now up to speed!
A Tree Reflection:
What Cancer Cannot Do:
Cancer is so limited.
It cannot cripple love.
It cannot shatter hope.
It cannot corrode faith.
It cannot destroy peace.
It cannot kill friendship.
It cannot suppress memories.
It cannot silence courage.
It cannot invade the soul.
It cannot steal eternal life.
It cannot conquer the spirit.
"The human spirit is greater than any Challenge."
I remain positive, hopeful, spirited and crazy! Thank you all for your continued support. I greatly appreciate your cards, letters, e-mails, gifts of love, food for my soul, flowers, prayers, mass cards, drives to my appts. and chemo, visits and more.
Thank you for being so wonderful during my winter of (dis)content!
CEO Theresa, Tree, SF
Email #3 - Jan. 28, 2009 VIc-Tree Team Retreat
My Sue Fig, and more of my Vic-tree team!
For you and Cheryl too!
This Sunday, Feb. 1st some of the Vic-TREE team is headed to the Charles Street A.M.E. church, 551 Warren Street,Roxbury, MA 02121 11:00 am. service. For an experience that will remain in your heart forever! I last went in Sept. of 2004, and haven't stopped talking about it.
When I went to Lesley University, one of our professors, Marjorie Jones, an incredibly kind and caring individual, is also a minister at this church. She had us go to her church as part of our Cultural diversity class. I loved it!! They really know how to "Praise the Lord", it's quite an experience, that I've always wanted to share with others. My (Alleluia) personality was born into a(sit and keep still) catholic body. Not going to change at this point, but love to be diverse on occasion. I picture Cheryl really getting into it!! Must wear a HAT and Sunday best. Just Like when we were kids at Easter time. They dress for the Lord. It's sweet. Please make my day and say you'll join us. We're leaving from my house around 9:30 am. or meet us there!
I love you,
Theresa
Please let me know! Or surprise me!!!! or both!!! Trust me, I'll still be Surprised!!!!!!
For you and Cheryl too!
This Sunday, Feb. 1st some of the Vic-TREE team is headed to the Charles Street A.M.E. church, 551 Warren Street,Roxbury, MA 02121 11:00 am. service. For an experience that will remain in your heart forever! I last went in Sept. of 2004, and haven't stopped talking about it.
When I went to Lesley University, one of our professors, Marjorie Jones, an incredibly kind and caring individual, is also a minister at this church. She had us go to her church as part of our Cultural diversity class. I loved it!! They really know how to "Praise the Lord", it's quite an experience, that I've always wanted to share with others. My (Alleluia) personality was born into a(sit and keep still) catholic body. Not going to change at this point, but love to be diverse on occasion. I picture Cheryl really getting into it!! Must wear a HAT and Sunday best. Just Like when we were kids at Easter time. They dress for the Lord. It's sweet. Please make my day and say you'll join us. We're leaving from my house around 9:30 am. or meet us there!
I love you,
Theresa
Please let me know! Or surprise me!!!! or both!!! Trust me, I'll still be Surprised!!!!!!
Email #2 - Jan 24, 2009
The Tree Report - For My Ever-Growing Victory(Vic-TREE) Support Group
Saturday- Jan. 24, 2009
TODAY WAS A GOOD DAY! Alleluia!!!!
Perhaps even a Great day! After my 1st Chemo. I had a full week of debilitatingside effects. But I handled them with Grace- (for themost part)! Yesterday was Wig Day! ("Wig Wars" - Private joke for Sheila Ducharme, my sister-friend and cousin and cancersurvivor, Vic-Tree Wig coordinator and helper in mypurchase). When Sheila said, "That one makes you look younger." The decision was made. All wigs have names. My wigs nameis "Mandy", but I affectionately refer to her as my BarryManilow wig. Get it?? It doesn't look like him(Pleeeze), he wrote the song "Mandy", for those of youyoung enough to remember. (Yes, I said young)!
My sister-secretary Marie, was kind enough to help me with a few errands today. She had a cold so she wore amedical mask. Funny, Funny, Funny. We got our overdoseof "Laughter" today. For those of you who may not be aware--- during Chemo, your immunities and white blood counts are low. They informed me that I can't HUG or Kiss people (That's not easy for me). Heck, I hugged the delivery person when she brought me flowers the other day. Supposedly when people have colds or other medical issuesthey should wash their hands and wear a mask around me. I asked the doctor, "Shouldn't I wear a mask," she said, "No, they should." I think it's her way of helping us find somecontrol in an uncontrollable situation.
Funny story. While trying to find a parking space today, we saw a primo parking spot up close at the sametime that another person saw it and drove along toward it. We were shocked when he gestured for us to take it. Then we realized with much laughter, that he saw her medical mask. (He felt sorry for her). Who needs a "Cancer on Board Sign". FYI: You may want to keep some masks handyand tucked under your seat in the car for future use. You never know when you might need one!!!
Thank you for your continued kindness, love, care and concern. Thank you for your visits, e-mails, cards, gifts, flowers, food, "Soups for the Soul" and other kind sentiments that all warm my heart. You never cease toAMAZE me!
Quote for the Day: "If you act better than you feel,eventually you'll feel better".
Saturday- Jan. 24, 2009
TODAY WAS A GOOD DAY! Alleluia!!!!
Perhaps even a Great day! After my 1st Chemo. I had a full week of debilitatingside effects. But I handled them with Grace- (for themost part)! Yesterday was Wig Day! ("Wig Wars" - Private joke for Sheila Ducharme, my sister-friend and cousin and cancersurvivor, Vic-Tree Wig coordinator and helper in mypurchase). When Sheila said, "That one makes you look younger." The decision was made. All wigs have names. My wigs nameis "Mandy", but I affectionately refer to her as my BarryManilow wig. Get it?? It doesn't look like him(Pleeeze), he wrote the song "Mandy", for those of youyoung enough to remember. (Yes, I said young)!
My sister-secretary Marie, was kind enough to help me with a few errands today. She had a cold so she wore amedical mask. Funny, Funny, Funny. We got our overdoseof "Laughter" today. For those of you who may not be aware--- during Chemo, your immunities and white blood counts are low. They informed me that I can't HUG or Kiss people (That's not easy for me). Heck, I hugged the delivery person when she brought me flowers the other day. Supposedly when people have colds or other medical issuesthey should wash their hands and wear a mask around me. I asked the doctor, "Shouldn't I wear a mask," she said, "No, they should." I think it's her way of helping us find somecontrol in an uncontrollable situation.
Funny story. While trying to find a parking space today, we saw a primo parking spot up close at the sametime that another person saw it and drove along toward it. We were shocked when he gestured for us to take it. Then we realized with much laughter, that he saw her medical mask. (He felt sorry for her). Who needs a "Cancer on Board Sign". FYI: You may want to keep some masks handyand tucked under your seat in the car for future use. You never know when you might need one!!!
Thank you for your continued kindness, love, care and concern. Thank you for your visits, e-mails, cards, gifts, flowers, food, "Soups for the Soul" and other kind sentiments that all warm my heart. You never cease toAMAZE me!
Quote for the Day: "If you act better than you feel,eventually you'll feel better".
Email #1 - Jan 18, 2009
The Tree Report: The Vic-Tree Team Support Group
UPDATE: Snowy Sunday, Jan. 18, 2009
Two Words: NAUSEOUS AND FATIGUED!
Quote of the day: "Suffer now and live the rest of your lifeas a champion".
Thank you all soooo very much for your continued supportand concern. The outpouring of phone calls, cards,e-mails, thoughts, prayers, flowers, gifts, goodies, foodand much more is so overwhelmingly appreciated. I amblessed to have such wonderful people in my life. Once again, "I am grateful that in God's design, HE made it so your path crossed mine".
Tired, CEO of The Vic-Tree Team, Theresa, Tree
I remain, positive, hopeful and CRAZY!
Any pertinent questions see/and or email My sister Marie -Self-Appointed (and approved) Secretary of the Vic-TreeTeam
UPDATE: Snowy Sunday, Jan. 18, 2009
Two Words: NAUSEOUS AND FATIGUED!
Quote of the day: "Suffer now and live the rest of your lifeas a champion".
Thank you all soooo very much for your continued supportand concern. The outpouring of phone calls, cards,e-mails, thoughts, prayers, flowers, gifts, goodies, foodand much more is so overwhelmingly appreciated. I amblessed to have such wonderful people in my life. Once again, "I am grateful that in God's design, HE made it so your path crossed mine".
Tired, CEO of The Vic-Tree Team, Theresa, Tree
I remain, positive, hopeful and CRAZY!
Any pertinent questions see/and or email My sister Marie -Self-Appointed (and approved) Secretary of the Vic-TreeTeam
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