Let me get a few things OFF MY CHEST! Oh, come on,------- you have to admit it's a perfect title for me 10 days after MY surgery!
Yes, it's been just 10 days and I can finally manage to lift my left arm on the keyboard. I was typing with one hand, it's way too slow. Boy do I appreciate the use of both my arms!
Good News First! My middle son Brent Edward turns 22 yrs. old today! (Happy Birthday Bud! I love you!) He will be going to Berklee College of Music tonight to use the production room to continue making a music CD with his band.
Arielle is continuing with a 5 week Summer course at BSC for her Graphic Design major. She is taking a drawing class and realizing her potential. She has more artistic talent then she (we) thought.
Alex continues to be a devoted young dad and husband working hard to build a day care center in their new backyard and downstairs in his spare time for Alyssa to head.
My grandchildren are beautiful as ever. Little Alex, 2 yrs. old leaves me phone messages that I cherish and re-play over and over to make my heart smile.
O.K., so you could say I've been a bit under the weather. LOOK OUT THE WINDOW, I'm under that!!!! Hey, it hurts having a part of your body removed. OUCH!!! I've had to cut the medication in half. I don't do too well on pain medicine. It makes me sick. My options are take it and take the edge off the pain and feel nauseous, dizzy and weak or don't take it and be in some heavy duty "lost a part of my body" pain!!! OUCH!!!!
Oh, it's not that bad. I will say, there is a little, tiny, small, not so nice, part of me that is glad the sun isn't shining! How could it shine while I'm in such pain? Sorry, I realize all of you normal people living your normal life would appreciate the Sun! O.K., I hope it shines for you soon! Ooops, that wasn't very nice, was it?
Well, I think my arm has had enough exercise for one day. I'm living to get to my nephew Nick and Cailyn's wedding. You may remember, I took a pshychology class the fall of 2006. Cailyn only twenty something years old, young, adorable, sweet, was the only other extrovert (talker) in the class. I gave Nick and Cailyn each other's e-mail addresses to see if they had anything in common. The rest is history. A match-maker was born. Their wedding day is this June 27, 2009, the next Sunny DAy!!!. My motivation for healing. My first big event to attend. If you happen to be there, please stay clear of my left arm. The refrigertor door swung open and accidentally hit my arm the other day, I saw stars!!! OUCH!!!
Hope everyone is well. Make your own sunshine. Appreciate your pain free days!
My dear life-long friend Lee just called. Thanks for the sunshine Lee! I have to laugh when people say, I'd call you but I don't want to bother you. Remember, my phone in my room does not ring, so if I'm resting, I won't hear it. If you want to leave me a message by phone, e-mail, blog, I would love the attention.
P.S. I was reminded of something funny while on the phone with Lee. When we went into Boston, Mass. General Hospital this past Tues. for my post op doctors visit, my mother (76) wheeled me into the hospital while Glen parked the car. On the way out, I thought, "what's wrong with this picture"??. Keep in mind, it's downhill on the way out and my mom needs assistance when she walks. I pictured her losing her grip and me flying down the hill, with a cast on the other arm!!!! It hurts to laugh, but it still feels good.
Time for my medication!!!
I remain, Positive, Hopeful, Crazy and in Pain!!!!!
CEO, VICTORY VIC-TREE TEAM Theresa, Tree, SF
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Hi Auntie Tree,
ReplyDeleteGreat to hear from you and great to see that your well enough to type, at least. You're not the only one who's liking the bad weather right now. Cailyn wants it to keep raining, because she feels that means less of a chance for rain on June 27. I'm not sure how scientific that reasoning is, but I'll go with it. And it's just like you to worry about Cailyn's cold just days after major surgery (always thinking of others first).
I also had a visual of Grammie pushing your wheelchair. It made we think of this scene from Naked Gun (fast forward to 3:20)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTF7ABnxX-g
See you soon!! Love ya,
Nick
Hi Theresa,
ReplyDeleteYou have every right to let everyone know how under the weather you're feeling. With every day that goes by I know you're body is healing, but doesn't seem like it's taking forever?? I remember being quite ill when I was a junior in high school and the pain was quite unbearable. I made my mom make a graph so I could see my progress everyday. You will see improvement soon....hang in there!!!! I'll pray that nothing comes in contact with that arm until you're good and ready :)
P.S. The sun finally came out about two hours ago - that would make anyone in New England feel better after this crumby stretch of weather!!!
Love Beth Curley
Hey Theresa,
ReplyDeleteSo happy to see you're feeling well enough to blog. I can't imagine the pain you've been in, but I do know you are one of the strongest people I know. I know you'll get through this, and probably with that incredible smile of yours! I must admit, I am guilty of complaining about all of the rain we've had, but I've decided to view it from a different angle, and look for the silver lining within those dark clouds. Imagine all of the flowers we would miss if the rain didn't fall. Or, all of the rainbows we'd never see. Ok, so I'm not a philosopher and I'll keep my daytime job, but I'll also try to see more positive as you have so generously shared with us. Whether or not you know it, you have inspired so many people to enjoy the small things that would otherwise be taken for granted. You truly have a gift! Keep strong and positive...we love you.
Anne and Scott
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I know your mother too well to ever think she would lose grip of a wheelchair any family member is sitting in. I do believe she may be the second strongest person I know (you being #1)...lol
Ola, it's me this time ! Just surprising you with some attention via technology :) Hope you are improving day by day. TOO-OO-OO many times I think of you, usually when I am about to complain about some menial thing. Looking forward to getting together with you soon for the outing of your choice! Please suggest some possible dates. Appreciate this day! 'obrigada...amiga Marilu"
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